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There are many nasty ways, but lets no go into that.
Ideally you stick to honesty. And you start by using the dreaded phrase "We need to talk....".
If you are as open and honest as you can be, you minimise the emotional trauma and long term fallout. Be brave, be direct. If you have fallen in love with Dee Jones, say "I have fallen love with Dee Jones". You may feel terribly terribly guilty, but don't let that interfere with your honesty.

The logical flow is to say that you are having second thoughts about getting married, say what the problem is, how you feel, apologise for breaking your promise and discuss the wrapping up of the relationship. Its not going to happen in one day - there will be several difficult meetings.

Fiance may try to patch things up. Don't try to keep fiance happy out of guilt. You want to get out, so make a clean break, don't leave fiance dangling.

A useful tip for better break-ups is to avoid laying blame on anybody. Accusations are inflammatory. Say instead how you feel about things.
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