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I think the first thing that has to be done is for the cheater to let go of his partner that he has cheated with. I MEAN it; don't accept any emails, phone calls, ect. It will be difficult since you have become so used to this addition. Secondly, being the wife who got cheated on, if she doesn't know DO NOT TELL HER! It will only bring disaster and turmoil. Get yourself past the affair and vow to NEVER have any type of contact whatsoever in the future. Now, if your partner is like me, suspected something all along you may have to disclose the affair and let her know that you have truly ended it. Expect, tears, anger, and frustration. Do not give too many sordid details, we really don't want to know.

It will only prolong the healing process. I mean it, if it is over, then let it be over.......

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14y ago

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