How do you fall in love with your wife again?

Answer 1

Go on a 2nd honeymoon or something....

Anyway, why are you asking this on a WIKI site? In my opinion, that's really lame. I'M here cuz I'm boredasfvck and answering random questions, but why would you want to expose your personal life to the general public? Any idiot (including I) could just come along and start pickin' on you & make you feel like shlt (which might be unbelievable, but it's not what I'm attempting to achieve here). My point being, if you're not in love with your spouse, see a marriage counselor, don't ask every kid in the world who owns a lap-top.

Ok?

Answer 2

Ask yourself what you loved about him in thefirstplace.

If your asking yourself how you can love him again, then you probably didn't love him the way you thought you did in the first place. Yeah- that's pretty normal.

If he cheated on you or whatever...if you love someone you just do. It doesn't just up and jump out the window because of a speed bump you hit. I think you'd need some time away from him to sort yourself out, and even if it seems all scary and stuff...it in most cases is not.

The thought of being alone is what is scary, not being without him. You need to straighten up and move on. That 'needy' bit of you is probably what is making him treat you the way he is after all.

Never let anyone take you for granted. You do not owe it to anyone but yourself to enjoy a healthy, good, strong relationship that excludes insecurity, doubt and hurt...and above all GUILT.

You shouldn't be asking 'how do you love him again'...you should be asking 'how do I love myself again?' You owe it to nobody but yourself.

Answer 3

remember everything you have been through, everything she has done and given up to make it work, everything you have together. if you would rather lie next to a stranger than someone who loves you you don't deserve her