How do you finger a girl when it is her first time?

Answer 1

Start very slowly and gently by placing your hand over her vulva. Use your fingers to gently stroke and caress her outer and inner lips, using gentle up and down movements. Locate her clitoris at the top of her labia and circle it gently at first with your first finger.

Be guided by her responses. If she is enjoying it you will hear her breathing change and she may vocalize her enjoyment. You will also notice her becoming increasingly wet and her labia will start 'opening up'. Wait until she is ready (very wet) before you slip a finger inside her.

Continue stimulating her clitoris while you put your fingers inside. Once inside curve your fingers as if you are signalling someone to 'come here'. Increase the speed of your 'come hither' fingers if she responds positively. You will feel her vagina contract around your fingers as she becomes more turned on and nears orgasm.

Don't be rough and don't do anything if she is dry. You may want to use a lubricant to help things along.

Answer 2

There's a couple of things you'd have to do before just outright fingering her. You should take the time to make sure that she is aroused --it's the little touches that make the difference. It would probably be a good idea to have her orgasm at least once before you insert any fingers. This would make sure that she is ready and wet enough so that the penetration won't hurt as much. There will probably be some discomfort still, but a little foreplay couldn't help. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

A LOT of guys have no idea what they're doing. First, once you get your hand down there and it's okay with her, insert either one or two fingers into her vagina. I'd recommend starting with one and moving to two if she's into it. Move your finger(s) in an up and down circular motion. The G-Spot is behind the pubic bone, and feels sponge-like, but if you can't find it, don't force it. Some girls are much more difficult to find than others. Next, for the most pleasurable orgasm (if that's what you're going for) begin to massage her clitoris in a circular motion using medium pressure, adjusting to what she may tell you (if it's painful, let up, or she may tell you to use more pressure). The clitoris above the vagina at the top of the labia. It may take as little as two minutes, or quite a bit longer. Practice makes perfect, and don't worry if you can't get it just right on the first try. And also, make sure she's wet enough, or you have lots of spit or lube on hand. Having your fingers dry when you're touching her down there can be VERY uncomfortable for her, even painful, which is not something you want to do to her. Dry fingers are a turn off and a big no-no.

Answer 4

figure out what she likes by experimenting.. some like it fast, direct and with one, then two fingers. some others like it slow and explorative. like rubbing other areas than directly the vagina feel best. the clit is the most sensitive and easiest to achieve orgasm from. figure out what she likes!

Answer 5

start with one finger then slowly work in the 2nd, find the G spot, which is usually about as deep as your 2nd knuckle and upwards. then gently rub the Clitoris with your thumb.

Answer 6

to finger a GIRL WITH YOU TONGUE YOU HAVE TO BE SLOW ABOUT IT CAUSE IT MAY NOT BE COMFORTABLE SLOWLY START LICKING THEN CURVE YOUR TONGUE A BIT A SLOWLY PUSH IT IN

HOPE IT HELPS