How do you fingure a girl?

Answer 1

Manual stimulation for a girl should be relaxed and okay with her first, as all sexual interaction with another person should be. Make sure she is comfortable with you doing this. If this is the case, you will first rub around her vaginal area, to make her vagina more lubricated and ready for digital penetration. If the two of you prefer to use a store-bought lubrication such as KY that is okay too. Just be sure to never insert anything into her vagina if it is dry because it can result in pain, discomfort and irritation (possibly even bleeding from the friction) for her. Once her vaginal opening is lubricated just insert one finger (most men use either the index or middle finger). Don't insert too far though, only up to about your middle knuckle until she is comfortable. Once your finger is inserted, massage her vagina. Be gentle and pay attention to her movements, sounds and breaths. If she doesn't seem to be enjoying it, ask her if she is okay, or if she would like you to do something else or change your method. Communication between each other is always very important in a sexually active relationship.