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First of all I'd say that you would have to love her a lot to forgive her for cheating, but as the old saying goes there are always two sides to a story. Maybe she wasn't feeling loved by you. Maybe there is a lot of tension in your marriage and she was fed up with possible bickering and hollering in your home. I can only surmise the problems, but usually neither the man or the woman in a marriage cheats unless something drives them to do it. Since it is you asking the question, perhaps if you look deep enough into your heart you will find the answers, but be honest with yourself, don't deny the possibility that you could have treated her like a dog and in doing so, you drove her into the arms of another man. If you love her enough to write this question then do both of you a favor and go and get marital help. Good luck

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