How do you forgive my wife after cheating on me with a woman We have a 6 and 4 year old involved as well How do I know if she is bisexual or not It only happened once but is that enough?

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• People are only human and since it has only happened once with your wife it could well have been a mistake that she regrets. Some women are curious, while others may be drinking and do things they wouldn't normally do. However, it is still classed as cheating sleeping with the same sex. Once the bond of trust is broken it is difficult to trust that person again, but time heals. Since you have two children you need to sit down with your wife and tell her that she needs to seek psychological counseling and you will back her 100%. She needs to know who she is and what she wants out of life before she ruins her marriage. This will also put your mind at rest.
  
• That's the problem is that she doesn't have any explanation of why she did it. I try to find out what caused this. No answer.. She has told me that it was nothing that I did wrong to drive her to this. That I am a good husband and father. But that doesn't set my mind at ease. I am a fixer and if she could tell me what I have done wrong then I could try to fix it. But not knowing is killing me. Also her sex drive was doubled when she did this towards me. Was that just guilty sex to make her feel better about what she did. Searching for answers.....