How do you get a girl with a boyfriend to like you?

Answer 1

The fact is, it is impossible to make a person love you. If love were something so fickle that just anyone could bend it to their will, it would not be worth a thing.

Assuming that she truly does love her boyfriend, you need to resign yourself to the fact that this is not for you to have; however, even if you believe that this is a casual relationship that will not last, do not pursue her in any way as long as she and her boyfriend are officially "an item."

Should the relationship end, do not make a move right away. Girls are very emotional and become both deeply involved and deeply attached in matters of love. Flirting is not a good idea in any situation when you desire to win a girl's heart, but it can be especially damaging during the period after a breakup.

The only thing to do is to make sure that this knows that you are there for her (which should be a piece of cake if you do love her, as you claim). The best way to stand out to a is to be a faithful friend. This will almost always get a young woman's attention because it is so atypical of most males. Treat her like the queen that she is to you, and she might just grow to realize that she cares for you in the same way that you do for her.

Well, to be honest, in my opinion there this girl I really love she has a boyfriend and I have tried my hardest to support her in the ups and downs. But now, I just give up because I'm purely heart broken I will soon probably resort to killing myself from the pain I'm going through.

Answer 2

well i am personally against answering this mostly because if a guy/girl has a girlfriend/boyfriend that means they are off limits. ruining someones relationship just because you have a minor crush on that person doesnt make it okay.

but since i am a nice person, if you really want her to like you, just start talking to her and give her cute compliments like not 'wow you are hot/sexy' compliments that are plain and simple like 'you look really nice today' or even start to ask her about her day or anything new happen? if she looks sad one day, make sure you can think of something to say to make her feel better and always try to make her smile or laugh.

once you guys can call each other friends that's when you can start to say she looks really cute and asking her if she wants to hang out.

soon she will realize how sweet you are and she will compare you to her boyfriend and that's when you play the waiting game.

Answer 3

i am a girl answering this question so i will give you my opinion... i like a guy who is an amazing friend before anything else. if i have a close friend that is a guy i would probably go out with them eventually but be friends if things dont work out... on the other hand i wouldn't go out with them on the chance of ruining our friendship. i would rather have a close guy friend than have an ex-boufriend who hates my guts