You break up with your boyfriend and then see if this other guy backs up his words with his actions. If he doesn't, you'd be smart to cut your losses. You would be doing your boyfriend a favor--it's lousy to be an unknowing 'back burner' just because you're scared that you might not be able to get the guy you really want. Let him find someone who actually wants to be with him.
The only way you can have this other guy is if he wants you to have him---and if you're smart, you won't enable his behavior by hooking up with him while he is still with this girlfriend. Keep this in mind if this guy doesn't rush to dump his girlfriend as soon as you break up with your guy. He might be looking for a 'side piece' rather than a new girlfriend.
People always think "oh, that would never happen to *me*" or "that person would never do that to *me*", but you know what? It does happen, and there are people who do that.
The fact that he's cozying up to you behind his current girlfriend's back speaks volumes about his character.
Even if he dumps his current girlfriend and starts dating you all the time, you'd better keep your eyes open and watch for that girl hidden just out of sight. You know, the one he'll be secretly flirting with and saying to, "If only you broke up with your boyfriend. . ." Because she'll be there, like it or not.
ok listen i am a guy and i know how to handle these things except i handle them with guys not girls but if the guy's girlfriend is snotty and rich im sure he will break up with her soon but if she is really nice just wait until something big happens like the girl kisses another guy then tell the guy u like what happened, well that is how sorry that is all i got
FLIRT WITH HIM! And, when he talks about flaws in their relationship, show him that you would be better off with him then she is.
Make him an offer he cant refuse.
make himwant you then secretly have sex with him then do it every day
You can't make a girl jealous only when you know the girl likes the guy. If you know that the girl likes the guy but already has a girlfriend, then spend more time with the girlfriend that the guy already has and then laugh alot areound her and if the girl you're trying to get jealous treat her like a friend but ignore her, but not too harsh!
Wait for their relashionship to end. Then make your move, but don't try to break them up.
Either he is shy and you need to make the first move, he already has a girlfriend, or he does not like you. Or he wants to be alone with you to ask you out.
Be his friend, wait, and don't be intrusive.
uu wait till one of them dumps the other then uu ask the guy out : )
he has a friend that likes you.
tell her that he whats to brake up wiyh you.
If he already has a girlfriend, likes this girl a lot, and they are comfortable together, then you should not be trying to get this guy away from her. It will only cause problems, mostly for you.
You Make Him Choose
maybe try to make you jealous and tells you they have a girlfriend already if they do not like you
Most likely yes. If this guy already has a girlfriend he loves then that means he is into her not you, but he is just trying to make you a backup. But if he likes you instead of his own girlfriend, then probably he is planning to break up with that girlfriend of his and ask you to be his.I would only take him seriously if he didn't have a girlfriend.