How do you get her to believe and trust you again after she thinks you cheated on her?

Answer 1

Tell her that u didn;t, get proof, and tell her that u love her too much to even think about doing sumthin like that. and say babe im sorry if u think i did i could NEVER do that to u and just believe me when i say that i love you and that i wanna be w/ u and only u

Answer 2

There is nothing you can do. If you do that then you're F-ed......unless she has cheated on you before then you're just in a messed up relationship. Good Luck

~OR~

If you really care about her and want to start earning her trust back you should first start by going to see her in person. You will have to make her see that you really care for her, want her back and prove to her that it will never happen again; basically allow her to give you one more chance to not mess up. You should not let anything get in the way of you trying to get her back, no obstacles, just go! -_-. Keep trying and don't give up, but do not make her so mad where she would call the cops on you. She will push back.

Check yourself and see what you did wrong before hand:

1. Look at yourself and what you did

2. Do you care about what you did

3. Do you honestly care to apologize (because she may make you feel like you don't)

3A. If religious go before God, become humble

3B. If not religious, be prepared for your conscience to errupt at what happened and what she might say to anger you; instead of arguing because that's not what you went for, just walk away and try again later. Realize you cannot agree with everything she says, but realize you are in the wrong.

4. Have a thought of what you will say to prove to her you were very wrong, and want another chance with her

5. Do not force the fact/thought that you are sorry

6. Realize and know that it will take time for her to accept your apology. Start over as if you are just getting to know her with the apology. Go slow. Whether it is going as fast as you would like she is at least allowing you to speak.:) It is a start.

7. Be prepared if she does not accept your apology. But still apologize truthfully and with meaning or you probably did not care in the first place if you take it back.

8. If she accepts, still take it slow. She only accepted your apology but has not given her trust fully back to you. Be careful, act smartly. She should prove to be the only girl/women on your mind if you really want her.

If you know her and know what would make her happier about the apology add that in. Ex: flowers, cards

If you know what would make her angrier about the apology, best not to do it.

Ex: flowers, cards

Depends on the girl/women...

If you do not know, have faith and do the steps given (as advice) above. Each step closer is better than no step.

Steps:

a. She, allowing you to talk/ letting you near

b. She, caring to listen and respond (hopefully with no vulgarity)

c. She, accepting your apology

d. She, accepting a friendship

e. She, wanting more than a friendship

f. She, giving you another chance

g. She, feeling like you mean your apology, care for her, and you wanting her back

h. She, giving her broken heart another chance with you for you to prove yourself worthy of her. Mend her heart back together. Love her, truly.

I. Slowly, but surely and thru time you will earn her trust back.

: )

Goodluck!.