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When a woman decides to go ahead with an affair it's a big risk and usually both people will lose out. The man moves on either staying with his wife or go on to some other woman and the woman feels like her soulmate has gone. This is just the chemical reaction in the brain to that losing an exciting partner who catered on your needs. I know it hurts deeply, but I hope you have learned that there are plenty of single guys out there that you are best to stick with and don't get tangled up with married men. It's a waste of your life. The hurt does go away. Get out and start dating or at least go out with with friends and kick up your heels. Don't sit at home brooding over this love affair, because it never was meant to be. I think you are more angry at yourself than at the loss of not seeing him any longer. Women can feel like fools for not seeing this moment come, but many women get caught up in affairs. Now you know ... don't go there anymore! Good luck Marcy focus on your husband and never speak to this man again. Move on in your life. Living in the past won't help you. Live and learn. The more you hold onto this feeling you have for him the more it will eat at you. Move on and live your life. Consider it a good thing as it wouldn't have come to anything but sorrow.

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