How do you get over a married woman that you fell in love with and you truly believe she is your soul mate?

Answer 1

We meet MANY soulmates in our lifetime - it does not mean they are meant to be with us (as in marriage). Most soulmates serve as teachers. The way you get over this married woman is to seriously think about what she taught you about love, then use that knowledge with women who are available to love you back the way you deserve.

Answer 2

Well it depends, ask yourself, do you truly still love the person your married too? more so then the woman/man you had the affair with? Because if you no longer love them then you'd be better off divorcing and going back to the affair but in a serious relationship. To be honest there's no 'way' or 'trick' to get over an affair, relationship, whatever it may be. Only time can heal it but a good way to help get over them is to get rid of everything you have to do with them, from them, anything and everything and just block them out of your life until you think you can face them without feeling in such a way towards them.

I don't know if that helps but I hope it does good luck.

ANSWER:

How do you? wow this will be a challenge to do. Your telling me that your affair lover is your soul mate, but your husband is your first love. Do you know how strong love is when it comes to a soul mate?, very strong and sacred. First love is only a first love, its not about someone that you can't live with. and you will forget your first love because it doesn't stay long.

Let me share my story with you, but don't let it be the answer that you are looking for. Asking your heart to know what to do will be your consequences and decision. I wasn't the first love of the man I married, if it was me he could have told me from the time he asked me to marry him. And I don't know if he knows what first love means to him. But he met a special woman who he told me once when I discovered his affair that " he felt that this woman is his soul mate, can't give you all the details because if you ask him he will tell you that he never mentioned it to me. But I am letting you know my story.

Now with your question, what does your heart tell you. If you can answer this, take my words for it it will be your answer between your love and your husband...