How do you get your ex back if you haven't seen him or spoken to him for 7 months and both you and him have new relationships but you both have the same friends?

Answer 1

Hon, you are a little confused about this whole scene. First off, good friends don't take boyfriends away from their friends. Ditch her! She is not a good friend! Secondly, if he loved you he would never have allowed this to happen. Your friend is playing games at your expense and has hurt you dearly. As far as he's concerned, kick him to the curb and consider they deserve each other.

I know it hurts. I have no idea why you would waste your energy going to visit her after what she has done to you. Time to stand on your own two feet, keep your dignity, see what the two are all about (nothing!) and move on.

AnswerI agree with above. But you can make sure you look your best and full of confidence when you do see them. Let him and her know that your life is just fine without them. That will make him realise what a fool he has been. And as for her, she will live a life wondering if he will leave her for one of her other friends because that's what he did to you so maybe he can do it again.

You don't need these people in your life.

Good luck, you're better than they are and you can get anyone you want as long as you are confident and believe in yourself.

AnswerHey its me, the one who asked this question! I know you are both right and I am sort of over it! I will explain the whole situation! My ex boyfriend was my best frend for 5 years before we hooked up and then he asked me to be his girl and I agreed! We were playing billiards at the mall and a good friend of mine comes along and she spoke to me then just brushed me off. When she saw him she thought, who is that cute, cute guy and I said he's my man. She smiled at me, walked over to him and introduced herself. All of a sudden he started singing and he looked directly into my eyes and she cut him off by saying, aw, isn't that the sweet and she left! Later on she called up his friend asking for his number and she gets it, calls him and starts chatting like it's normal!

I thought it was normal, even when she didn't consult me, but then they started talking for 6 hours a day while he and I talk only 15 minutes in 2 days! She acts emotional all over him so that he would feel bad! Then 5 months passed by and when I tell him I'm sick of it and I asked him to choose and he says he can't because we both the most important women in his life! I took it lightly like it didn't matter but that's when it hit me on the 6th month, my friends called me up telling me that she is trying to mess with my head! Well, I called her up, I told her if she wants him she can have him, I don't mind. She tells him I said that and BOOM there goes a break up!!

The next day I apologized for not trusting him but he said its OK we were then friends for about a week and next thing I find out, she is his girlfriend!!!!

I called him up asked him if it was true and he said yes, then I told him that I never wanted to speak to him again. I still talk to his girlfriend (my close friend!) He and I stopped talking for 2 months and then his good friend thought he was in love with my friend but my friend never wanted to be with his good frend. So he called my friend up and cussed at her and after that I was angry because she was crying a lot. I called him up and cussed at him and I thought of something better to make him stop calling. She and I started talking to him like the way I used to before and all of a sudden he started making me laugh and I went with the flow! GUESS WHAT!!! We're friends again. Now I want to win him back. Lord knows why, I don't love him but I still do care, so I'm not sure if it's revenge that I am looking for or if it's him I want!