How do you get your ex lover back?

Answer 1

If the person was married let it go. Don't bother! If they weren't married and you just split-up then contact that person by phone and try setting up a meeting place where it's quiet and communicate your feelings. The person may or may not come back to you.

Answer 2

The best way to retrieve dwindled love is to spend time together in a platonic manner to reignite the flame. Be sure not to seem too needy, as you want your loved one to recall all the things that were good in the relationship. Accept the things you can't change and focus on the positive as you rebuild.

Answer 3

you need to show her that you truly do care and want to be with her. if you messed up show her and prove to her you have changed. make sure she knows that you care about her. don't try and make them jealous. that pushes them away and makes them hate you. try doing something or showing her something that you guys used to do when you were together.

Answer 4

Show them that the personal qualities that attracted them to you are still real. Try to have them meet you near a place or event where you fell in love. Recreate the moment if possible. It may take starting over as friends and then growing into the relationship all over again. Find the common bonds of friendship.