How do you get your wife to accept your cross dressing?

Answer 1

There is no way to force anyone to accept anything about crossdressing. You can however educate people that in general it is not about sex, that it's about identity of the individual and how they perceive themselves versus the general population perceiving them. You can point out that the places in The Bible that talk about crossdressing are talking about either dodging your responsibilities by crossdressing or participating in pagan rituals including crossdressing: neither of which are we speaking of with the 'average' crossdresser.

You can point out that 'male' and 'female' clothing changes with society: pants were wrong for women to wear in accepted society till the 1940's; our country's forefathers wore breeches resembling tights, corsets and wigs. You can explain that God isn't interestede if you have tassels on the ends of your clothes nor does he care that they were cut originally for women: "My Brother and my sister are those who do the will of God." And what is the will of God: "that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life" Not those that wear suits. Not those that wear ties. not those that wear robes: those who believe upon Christ.

In Acts 8: "Philip began with the passage in Isaiah proclaiming to him the good news about Jesus. As they continued down the road, they came to some water, and the eunuch asked to be baptized. Philip baptized him and the Spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away." A person whose parts were changed (most likely removed) was accepted and baptized into the church.

So, you cannot 'get' anyone to accept crossdressing, you can only educate them about things they may not know relate to it. Family (and others) have to choose to accept or deny the truth; you can't do it for them.''

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Answer 2

I don't think there is any way for sure to get your wife to be More accepting of it, but putting it forward in the right (constructive) way is a good start because she may feel a few things

1. Your a closet homosexual and this is just another step on the road to coming out of the closet.
2. You are taking a persona that is strictly for her (when equal rights came around women were seen as inferior as such what man would want to dress as one) and alto not concisely thought of like that people still instinctively think that way.
3. She may just find it a little strange because she douse not understand it.

in any case i would suggest doing some searching on the internet and collecting some information to show that it is normal and not a sign of homosexuality, then sit down and talk it out with your wife but it may take some time for her to take it all in.

My partner of 4 - 5 years is accepting of my x dressing and even goes shopping with me and makes suggestions but it toke her over a year and a half to come to terms with it as she thought i was a homosexual and i don't really know what changed her mind in the end but all the info i found and the talks about what it would mean helped a lot.

Best of luck hope all works out.

Answer 3

well kt really depends hat is she like