You don't. Don't spank your 11 year old child! Try something a bit less painful, like positive reinforcement or taking something away. It would help if you gave more information as well, like exactly what he did. Spanking can just make your child upset and mad at you, not helping in the long run. Try more peaceful alternatives! =^w^=
A mom might say," IF YOU DO NOT STOP THAT, I WILL GIVE YOU A SPANKING!!
defenitly don't spank them over everything i would give them one worning say "if you dont stop your gonna get a spanking" if they still act up give them a good old fashioned spanking! give her a HARD, HURTFUL, good oldfasioned spanking if she wont listen If a girl or bpy for that matter is being deliberately defiant, or naughty, I have no qualms about giving them a good old fashioned spanking over my lap. A proper spanking should be applied solely to the buttocks, either covered (shorts or panties) or on the bare. I prefer bare, especially if the child is a bit older. This adds an element of embarassment that will be remembered long past the pain of a spanking and MOST will not want a repeat and will act accordingly.
Oh, dude, getting a hairbrush spanking is like a rite of passage in some households, you know? It's when someone uses a hairbrush to give you a good ol' smack on the behind for misbehaving. It's not exactly fun, but hey, at least it's a creative use for a hairbrush, right?
Spanking your child is your choice, however, there are ALWAYS more appropriate and positive alternatives to spanking. Such as: time outs, taking away privileges.ect
"James had a bad reputation with his teachers for misbehaving in class."
No.
Only if you change your ways.
he gives the bad kids a spanking
I am a firm believer of spanking, look at kids nowadays. Our children now are the result of not being punished correctly for their actions. They say spanking is "abusing". So for you to spank your child, be prepared for welfare to come in and investigate if your child goes to school and tells on you. A nude spank? No.
he gives the bad kids a spanking
First, you start with a time out. Then, after the time out, you say "If you do this again, you are going to get a spanking." If he or she does whatever he or she was doing, then you go into the bathroom and then spank him or her however many times you feel.
Of course it's right on the day of your birthday!