How do you have a trusting relationship with your husband?

Answer 1

I don't ask where he is going, all the time and everyday.

I don't call him every 15 to 30 minutes on the phone where he is at or a cell phone or pager.

I don't ask where he is been or who he is with, all the time everyday.

I don't call all his friends and hangouts to find him either.

I don't hang onto him and be clingy either.

I let him have his space with his friends and family.

On his own.

He goes to the shed and does things I let him be.

Usually my husband will tell me where he is going and what he is doing but I am not worried of him he is a big boy now and can handle himself.

I mean yah if he is out late I will call and make sure he is okay. Every once in awhile.

But for the most part he is knowing that I trust him and he trusts me.

If you have lost the trust in your marriage though it is usually hard to gain it back as always in the back of your mind you will think that he is cheating again on you or doing something that will cause problems with your marriage again.

The best thing to do if you have not all ready is marriage counseling it really does help and maybe can bring the trust and love back into your marriage over time. As long as you are BOTH willing to do so. It is something you cannot do by yourself you both have to be involved. And from the sounds of it you really want to trust him again and well that may be the only way to get rid of the trust issues for you and him.

you should tell him if he ever asks

Answer 2

• What you did before marriage should be left in the past as he didn't own you and both of you were single. He needs to grow up and realize you married him because you love him. Start communicating with each other because good communication skills often cure most problems. If he is sulking over you cheating before marriage then tell him that humans make mistakes and you were young and foolish, but realize you loved him and he either excepts your explanation and if not he needs to grow up and mature. Don't allow him to punish you for something that happened before marriage.
  

Answer 3

It is extremely important to be mutually honest in any relationship. Try sitting down with your husband and asking each other questions, each of you answering them as thoroughly and truthfully as possible. Do this frequently; the more often you do it, the more you will feel that you know, thus creating feelings of trust.

More generally...never lie to him, and he will learn to never lie to you. It's the golden rule...do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Answer 4

Marriage is based on trust, and the two of you shouldn't have gotten married if there was no trust in the first place.

Answer 5

make them a peanut butter and jelly sandwich then let them slap you

Answer 6

All you can do is be trustworthy, but be it.