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I would appreciate some advice, as soon as possible. Thank you and here are the facts: My close friend is in an abusive relationship with a man that is bipolar but will not take his medication. Many of our mutual friends have witnessed his bullying, berating, selfish and sadistic ways he does not try hard to hide his bad behavior. We are convinced that he does this as a way to keep her friends/family from wanting to spend time with her. He wants to control and limit her time with all of us, probably because he knows how we feel about him and are inclined to tell her how we feel. He moved her several states away to be close to his family and she left a great home and job behind. There have been some incidents of physical abuse. He is a monster and I feel that he would never let her get away. She just became pregnant and now she will be less inclined to leave. Her family was arranging for an intervention until they found out she became pregnant. She is a CPA with a masters degree, but her self worth is extremely low. Before she got engaged our friends came together to tell her how we felt about him but she indicated it wasn't our business. After their marriage, when I came for a visit his behavior was so bad that when I asked her how she put up with his verbal abuse, she simply stated that she just tunes it out. Without sounding cruel, and having my own child, I can't be around her without him there and he is such a horrific force I may not have a relationship with her much longer. I am hurt and upset with her for disregarding her well being and staying with this abusive man. Maybe I am just furious at her denial. I value this friendship and am trying hard to put these feelings aside because I want her to get help. I want to respect my friend again. I don't want her hurt or worse.
What else can I help you with?
How can someone end the cycle of emotional abuse?
The first step in ending the cycle of emotional abuse is to ask for help. Discussing the problem with a physician, psychologist, clergy, or even a trusted friend is the beginning. The sufferer can then be directed to organizations and individuals who can help break this vicious cycle.
Can emotional abuse turn physical how long does it take before the abuse gets physical?
Yes. Most physical abusers are first emotionally abusive. Some never physically abuse, but remain emotionally abusive, or recognize the problem and get help. There is no time line of when the abuse will or will not escalate to physical abuse. Abuse, no matter what form it is in, should not be accepted or tolerated.
What if you are a friend or witness of an abusive relationship?
seek help for your friend before it is to late. and you will regret it abuse can turn into murder be a friend seek help
A friend is need a friend in deed?
Absolutely, but a deed can also be emotional support. it means that if your friend is a true friend then they will come to you for help
How do you help a victim of emotional and mental abuse when the victim continues to endure the abuse?
You must try with all your heart to get this person professional help, the sooner the better, one thing will lead to another until the abuse becomes physical AND IT WILL EVENTUALLY!!!
If a husband is accused of domestic violence abuse can a friend help him if he is in jail?
If a woman's husband is in jail for domestic violence, he can ask a friend to help him bond out. It will be up to the friend if he helps or not.
How do you define an abusive relationship?
This definition is a varied one because there are different forms of abuse. The physical abuse is the type that violence and control is involved and excuses for the action and blame. The emotional abuse is controlling too but it rears its ugly head through speech and such. The mental abuse is an extention of emotional abuse and this one makes you think your crazy and worthless. All of these are damaging and need to be reported and the victim/s need help immediately. Look in your local phonebook and there will be a abuse hotline. These people can ask you specific questions over the phone and help you to define your abuse. They also can get you help. Good luck
Is domestic abuse same as emotional abuse?
I think they are both similar , domestic abuse I guess can be same as emotional abuse, either been hit , verbally abused by some one is abuse. If you seek help then I advise you to go and see someone about it , there is a lot of support out there for this as once many years ago verbal abuse wasn't even recognized, but it is more so know then ever before. Take care
How can a potential abuser how can you get help?
Get into batterer counseling (even if its verbal/ emotional abuse) ASAP (NO Anger Management - that does NOTHING for abusers)
Where could someone go to help a friend find substance abuse treatment centers?
One can go to a therapist to help a friend with substance abuse. Therapists and other specialists can be found through one's insurance plan or a website such as Addiction Care Options.
Your best friend is in an emotional abuse relationship and you dont know what else to do to help her?
Sometimes people will deny being in an abusive relationship and will not ask for help, but if it is very clear that they are being abused then tell someone in a position of authority about it (cops, teachers, parents, and other people you trust) Before discussing this with your friend, do some home work. I have listed some links to help you so you will be ready when she wants some help.
How do you help a friend who has an abusive brother in both phyical and emotional abuse?
I am not a doctor by any means but with your friend u have to be careful cause its like the old saying goes blood is ticker than water .But u have to talk to your friend and see what is going on and if in your heart u are still not happy report him. but be ready cause your friend mite not like u after it. stay safey and good luck!!!
