you can't they have to be able to want to stop try to get them help if they want it
find someone else to help you get over it
You can't
Talk to someone, think about someone or something you love and why you love them, hang out with your friends, or you can get therapy help. I had this sorta thing also, this really helped me.
Paranoia is a symptom of underlying emotional disturbance. You can't just "get someone to stop." If they are unable to see the reality of a situation, explaining it to them over and over again won't help. The best help you can offer is to encourage them to get some counseling.
stop
Some positive of being discouraged is that it can stop someone from doing something that may harm themselves or others. It can also help to discipline and learn lessons and boundaries.
I am not an expert but anyone can help stop child abuse. If you are 14 and being abused or know someone who is, you should definitely report it. You can tell anyone, a teacher, a parent of a friend, a relative. No one deserves to be hurt like that no matter what they did. Especially not a child! Please report to someone if you know that someone is in a bad situation.
stop being ugly
Stop insulting her. Maybe that would help.
To help someone stop being full of hate, first, engage in open and empathetic conversations to understand the root of their feelings. Encourage them to express their emotions in a constructive way and suggest healthier coping mechanisms, such as mindfulness or seeking professional help. Introduce them to diverse perspectives and positive experiences to foster empathy and understanding, while also modeling kindness and acceptance in your interactions with them.
i forget
There isn't really any way to 'stop crushing' . If you are attracted to someone, you can't help it.