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my advice on how to pick up a guy you like is this: if you really like him and he doesnt like you...then stuff him it wont work...but if you reali realli like him then do something to let him know you like him then if he likes you then you can get started.

If he likes you but is to embarressed to ask you out but you want him to ask you out, then tell one of your friends (one who is a big blabber mouth) then she will tell him you like him and be more likely to ask you out!

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The above is from some girl. This is a boy. From our perspective, girls don't make the first move unless they're sluts. Like it or not, that's how we're programmed to think.

To be honest, a boy will gauge whether he wants to be with you within the first 5 seconds of seeing you. If he meets you and that switch doesn't click in his head, he will only think of you as a friend.

However, if you really want to break this system, you have to convince him that you have options, you know how to dress, and his buddies totally dig you. If a boy thinks you're hot property, he will do anything to get with you.

But overall, the thing which is most important (but most girls and women who give advice like that above don't know) is this:

NEVER send a friend to tell a boy that you like him. This completely kills it for him. If a girl likes a boy he will lose interest pretty quickly. This is because he is put in control, and it makes it boring for him.

Also, it sorta kills the idea of picking you up for him cos he didn't make the first move and he sorta looks worse for it, it will definitely put him on the spot if nothing else.

Even if you do go out, if you keep this sort of "I'm more into you than you are into me" vibe going, he's going to start to look for some other options.

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14y ago

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