How do you know if a guy really doesn't like you or not?

Answer 1

First he will talk with you clearly and directly about how he likes you. If he does not say "I like you" then he doesn't. If he does anything else to show you he likes you but doesn't say he likes you, he doesn't like you. If he tells other people he likes you but doesn't tell you he likes you he doesn't really like you he just likes the idea of letting you think he likes you. If you don't really know him then he doesn't really know you either so he has no way to like you just like you have no real way to really like him either.

OK, first that is not right. He might be shy he doesn't have to say he likes you, you should just talk to him about anything and if he doesn't don't feel embarrassed you might even just ask him.

Answer 2

Being a guy, I'd be interested in any girl that I had not met yet as long as my discussions with her were interesting and we "seem" to have common interests, beliefs, etc. Truth be told - depending on the age group you are in, for some people looks have a great deal of impact on interest. If you are seriously looking for a long-term mate, I recommend being completely honest with each other and provide current pictures to each other. Get that behind you and see if the emails and interest continue at the same level. If they do, then maybe this is one to continue pursuing. If the emails lessen after pictures, then I would consider that to be sign that there may be a lack of interest from the other. Sending emails back and forth to someone you don't know is easy and safe. Being completely honest or lying about everything are equally as easy. I recommend being honest about your interests, hobbies, faith, etc... The real hard part is knowing if the person on the other end is being as honest. Be careful - there are too many bad people who use this type of communication to draw in the unknowing into harms way. There are "safe" ways to meet people for the first time in public places. Search the web for safety tips first before you meet.

Answer 3

Ask his friends. I don't truly know the answer to this.

I think you should start taking to him. When you become good friends, ask him out. yeh but what if you have tried that and it still doesnt feel like chemistry?? i say if he knows that you like him get a friend to ask if he likes you? and if he does ask him out!

I have this problem and he knows I like him and he even asked me out once. I was kinda ecstatic. freaking out but happy in the same way. My frieds accedentally ruined it by laughing. He didnt bring it up again. Then later in class, i tried to make him ask me again. I ended up askin him out and HE rejected ME. What in the world should i think about this?!

Answer 4

if he keeps looking at you when you look past him or at him and if talks to you about things that are going on around you just so he can talk to you and if he asked your friends for your number so he can talk to you that way when he/you leaves then you can still talk and find things out about each other and to see if you like him and to see if he still likes you . he could also be mean to you that way he doesn't have to admit it to himself or any one else if he is kinda shy

hoped this helped :)

Answer 5

Your read the signs, you feel it. You see how he treats you and how he treats other girls, and when you notice a difference, that he gives you extra attention or treats you more nicely and with extra care, then he likes you. And if he flirts with you, but sometimes there are guys who flirt with all girls, so if he only flirts with you, then he's interested in you.