How do you know if you are over-possessive?

Answer 1

Do you always know exactly where he is, who he is with, and what they are doing? When he isn't at work, is he always with you, doing what you want to do? Do you get upset if another woman shows any interest (not necessarily sexual interest) in him?

People are not objects. You cannot "possess" people. Possessiveness, even the mildest, is, therefore, automatically abusive and, often, pathological.

Answer 2

The key to overcoming over-possessiveness is truly establishing trust. If both people have an understanding of one another, then there is no reason to be possessive. Besides, if you cannot establish this trust then you will never have a relationship that will last...