Wow.....this is tough yet so simple.
#1- When everything seems one sided and you feel you are carrying the marriage.
#2- When you tell your husband "I love you" and he says something like "that's nice or i'm lucky or grunts". ALL THE TIME....there is never "I love you" back.
#3-When you are paying your own way. Marriage should be 50/50 and be a partnership.
#4- When your husband does not touch you and stops making love to you.
#5- When you have gotten so tired of no affection you just start sleeping in the extra bedroom.
#6- When he gives you no emotional support what-so-ever.
#7- When it's all about HIM.
#8- When you are giving him your best daily and he never does anything for you.
#9- When he tells you he does not or that he never loved you. BELIEVE IT.....he "may" be having a really bad moment but do not dismiss what he is saying.
#10-When he shows no appreciation for your efforts and when he never thanks you for a job well done. Being a wife IS a job even if you are home all day!
**notice I did not say an affair because many couples survive that** but, if that's a deal breaker for you then the marriage is over.....period!
I could go on with another 5 easily but I think you get it. You see, I AM leaving my husband in a month. I stuck it out for 7 years. If you see signs and think things will get better.....if you think he will wake-up one day and love and appreciate you then rethink that. Counseling helps many couples and every avenue should be taken to stay in the marriage. But, if you have tried everything else and it's still not working then it's time to rethink & reflect and maybe you just married the wrong man. I still believe in love and believe someday love will find me but don't spend years spinning your wheels. People are who they are and rarely change.
Because you want to be miserable.
Yes.
confront him and leave him! or atleast threten to xx
No, I do not have a husband!
no! what is your husband doing to make you want to leave!
try counseling and if it doesnt work out then you may have to get a divorce
Talk to her about your views that you want this. She might agree upon that and leave her husband. It depends on her and it is her take on this.
Yes. The husband would be the sole owner of the property and could leave it to his wife in his will.
he had know time to talk about his dreams to his family
yes.. but 1st i wil investigate about it.
She never did
You take the hint and leave him alone.