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  • There is nothing much you can do when your spouse leaves you for another woman. No matter how heartbreaking it is dig in your heels and don't beg him to come back and start out by getting out with friends and having a little fun for yourself even if there are children involved. You can always trade-off babysitting with a girlfriend, but remind yourself that if you do have children that they suffer the loss of their father not living with their mother and often children may blame themselves for the break up and you will have to assure them that sometimes adults can fall out of love with each other and it has nothing to do with them. Remind your husband that you could get him on desertion and if you divorce him you will most likely get half of everything he has. If you want to wait at least seek legal advice and get child support (which every father should pay) or even support for yourself if you are not working. Most men who leave their wives generally do not stay with their mistress for too long (perhaps six to eight months if that and depending on the individuals) and a good percentage of men get it out of their system and want to come back to their wife. Sometimes people just think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't ever let your husband think you cannot get along in life without him and if he wants to come back home get him to date you first before you allow him back into your life.
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