How do you let go of someone your in love with and move on?

Answer 1

It really depends on why you and the person broke up. If he/she cheated on you then you really shouldn't ever go back to them. People generally aren't going to change their way of life for you. If they cheated they are going to continue, if they lie they will not stop lying. I'm not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE I'm just saying that it is EXTREMELY unlikely no matter how they manipulate it to sound like they are being honest.

If the person broke up with you for someone else they may try to come back when they are done with the other person. Sometimes the person may really realize how much they missed you but they also may just be crawling back when they don't have the other person anymore and do it again when somebody else comes along.

It is MUCH MUCH easier said then done but it is usually best to just pull yourself away from the person and move on. If you have dated more then once and continue to brake up and go back out, then nothing is going to change, just break away from the cycle. People can deserve second chances but third just shouldn't EVER happen. Once you pull yourself together you can maybe be the person's friend again but if you don't think you are capable of doing so without wanting them back, then removing yourself completely may be the best option.

Answer 2

find someone else and it will help you get over that person.

REAL ANSWER:

get revenge, and kill them.

ANSWER:

revenge is a sin that's not what you should do...personally i don't know how because i just got my heart broken and its been mounths and i still cant get over him but i wish i knew how :(

I know how you feel, exactly how you feel. I have dated this guy twice and we broke up over the summer. But now all I do is try to be his friend and he flat out won't talk to me at all. Just hang in there and you will find the answer deep down in your heart.

Answer

Finding someone else will not help you if you are still in love with that person. If you were/are really in love you have no interest in someone else. It's a terrible situation to be in - I've been there for over two years. Yes you go on with your life but it is still miserable without the one you love and/or the one who hurt you. I can't think of anything worse than being hurt by someone you love - someone you really love. I've been around for a while and had my feelings hurt plenty of times but once you really fall in love with someone you are left vunerable to that person's actions. They can swat at you like a fly and squash the life out of you with the bat of an eye. I couldn't even think straight for months. The rug was pulled out from under me when I fell for the guy - totally wasn't expecting it. And the rug was pulled out from under me when he drop kicked me into oblivion. I'm a pretty strong person normally but not this time. Devastated doesn't even cover it. Crushed, devastated, hurt, heartbroken, and just plain sick just to name a few of the things that I felt - and still do at times. As miserable as it is I am learning to live with it - well shall I say I'm learning to exist with it. I really don't think I'll ever love someone else. It was YEARS before I met someone and really fell in love. I wasn't even looking for a relationship or love. He was the love of my life. If I ever get over this mess and end up meeting someone I'll be too afraid to open up and trust someone again. It seems that I'm stuck in this perpetual, hellish existence for now anyway. So....hang in there. I know exactly how you feel. Stay strong, take care of yourself, and get involved in things that you love to do. I stay extremely busy with work, hobbies, learning new languages, donating some time to different causes, advancing in my education, and just about anything else I can stay busy with.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. Make yourself look at the bad qualitiies about that person and then make it seem like your in love with someone else. Avoid them as much as possible