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When you are living with an abusive person, it is best to know;
1. What type of abuse is it? Emotional, verbal, physical or any form of abuse.
2. Who is the abuse targeted to? Is it only to you, or it is also the same behavior to other people.
3. What causes the abuse? It is because of it is a personality trait or is it because of someones dislike or envy of you, is it because they think you are intruding in their life or they do not like your behavior or is the behavior learned, maybe from the parents or peers?
4. Solve the underlying problem. Talk to the person about why they treat you that way. Do not be harsh or interrupt when they are talking. If they do not want to tell you, encourage them by suggesting an answer e.g does me watching the tv make you angry?, do not start by blaming them as this will only cause them to be defensive which can lead to further abuse, Forgive them for all they have done and ask to start again, do not remind them of there bad deed.
5. Have patience, people do change but they cannot change overnight. If they agree to stop the abuse, be patient and correct them lovingly. Avoid harsh reactions. Advise them to seek counselling or therapy as well.
6. Encourage them if they accept to. If they don't, ask if they can make themselves better and if so what is their plan of action.
6. Stay away from them, even if you are close together, give them their space so that they will have no one to abuse or lash out to.
7. Have a safety plan. What will you do to prevent or avoid or be safest when the abuse is imminent? Who will you call? Do you have a back up plan for you or the other abused.
8. If the abuse gets more serious or is life threatening e.g child sexual abuse, incest, rape, battering, SEEK HELP IMMEDIATELY for yourself or the abused and get out of that situation.
What else can I help you with?
What is the resolution in Black beauty?
he returns to his rightfull owner to recover and live freely from abuse and cruelty.
What are synonyms for torture?
mistreatment, abuse, cruelty
What are research questions or topics about animal cruelty and abuse?
There are many
Why animal cruelty is related to child abuse?
Animal cruelty is related to child abuse because animals or children are living things. Hurting animals is like hurting kids because they are defenceless.
What is a sentence for cruelty?
the cruelty person live is short
Is domestic violence different from animal cruelty?
Yes. Domestic violence refers to abuse of humans within the home (to spouses or childen, for example), while animal cruelty refers to the abuse of animals anywhere.
How do dogs cope with cruelty?
Crying, binge drinking, drug abuse, uncontrollable barking at inanimate objects that remind them of the cruelty. Call me
What are the affects of animal cruelty?
Studies have demonstrated that there is a link abuse and human violence.
Is happy slapping a form of bullying?
Slapping someone is a form of physical abuse or cruelty.
Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to animals plus slogans?
There is an association in the United States called the Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. They have a slogan which is about preventing animal abuse.
Should people who abuse animals be on an animal abuse offender list?
Not only should they be placed on that list but they should also be arrested for animal cruelty.
Where did tula contostavlos live as a child?
Tula Conostavlos's father left the family home when she was 9 and she went to live on a council estate. She experienced alot as a teenager: drug abuse, alcohol abuse and violence.
