How do you move forward after the break-up of a long-term relationship?

Answer 1

It feels really sick after break up. If there is still any hope then you should try to sort things out. Else you should start diverting your mind in other activities , that will help you get over it.

Answer 2

• I know how you feel. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago and I still cannot get over him. I love him and still want him back. All I can say is if you have found a great love, don't let it go too easily. All I want is my ex back and I know that it will never happen. If you and your partner still cannot work things out then the best way forward is to meet someone new and start afresh.

• The past is the past and he is the past that broke your heart. Long term relationships are the worst. I know that you know that everyone knows that, that's why its so hard and I don't think that anyone ever really loses the feelings of the ones they love but it doesn't stop you meeting someone new. And you will in time.

• Let all your emotions go out..try to preoccupy yourself with friends and family..and learn slowly to accept what has happened... learn to love oneself.

• Eat a whole gallon of chocolate ice cream and cry your heart out and the next day wear a flirtacious outfit to your ex's place of work and lick your lips deliciously and he'll ask you back out again and you will get married works for me every time.

• Try doing things slowly.... it takes time to grieve and get over the loss. Don't rush and try to be easy on yourself.

• Stop being sad and move, or move away, or go away on a vacation.

• Its very hard to get over a break-up. If you are the one who broke up with her/him and now you want them back, then tell them you made a mistake and you still have feelings for them. If you are the one who broke up, stay friends and let them know you still care. Just remember break-ups are never easy. In time, you will get over it.

• Just accept the fact that it's really over. Don't assume that things will rekindle. You have to toughen up to survive in this world. There's a time for everything, so for now you just move on. Believe in the future. The future will hold something better. Move on. Move on. Move on
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• All the things above are wonderful tips here are some of the things i did to get over my ex
• dont beat yourself up and question it.asking yourself why it happened or what went wrong wont help
• dont try to be his friend lose ALL contact
• do the things you used to do before you met
• talk to your old friends,they will help you remember whpo you were and maybe help you find some one new
• make a list of things you want to do with your life like your dreams
• write poety,sing,dance
• remind yourself every day YOU ARE WORTH IT,YOU ARE BETTER OFF
• even tho it hurts now trying to get back together will most likely hurt more.......take that from a girl whos tried.........

Answer 3

How to move on after a breakup?

Right now, if this is your question, your probably feel a lot of pain, and if you don't, then why the heck are you reading this?! Okay this answer depends on who broke up with who,:

If you broke up with the person,

If you broke up with the person and want them back or just feel horrible for what you did, then read this. Breaking someones heart can sometimes lead to breaking your own heart. Dont blame yourself for this problem though, if you feel really horrible then what you gotta do is go back up to that person and really see how there taking it, if there not taking it bad then DONT FEEL BAD! But if they are then tell them why you broke up with them, explain to them in a good way and that its no ones falt for this reason. if you were ment to be, then you would still be together, and that this is just the way of life, they will move on. If you broke up with a guy/girl and want them back, see if they still like you, they might not trust you as much as before, but what can you expect? You break there heart and suddently think it can be stitched up in a second? NO!! Try to gain there trust back by making them feel good around you, try not to medle as much with anyone else except them. Make them feel as if there cared and loved by you and you only! As if there a prince/princess, after you do that, you have to show them the real you. If your more of a crazy fun loving person and you go around them as a stiff, smarty pants person, STOP! Change your way, that's not the correct path. Being yourself can really prove if someone really likes you. When you finsh those steps, then what you gotta do is ask them, but when you ask them, say it in a way that they would like to hear it. Dont just say, i want you back! Say i was wrong to break up with you, i made a big mistake, i feel very ashamed of myself and will do anything to make you feel as if all your wishes will come true. And then you can say, i want you back. Hopefully things will go right, but if not, im very sorry for you, but remember that's just the way of life!!!!

If the person broke up with you:

If the guy/girl broke up with you, then read this. My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. He just came up and said i don't wanna be your boyfriend no more, i accepted it with a simple question of why. He told me he just wasnt in the mood for a girlfriend right now. Anyways, the trick is that, if you really like this person and would give up your world for them, don't give up hope soon enough, ask why they broke up with you and try to solve that problem. If it was an old g or b-friend they missed or just a new person, you might not be outa luck, maybe they'll see later that there not ment to be and that you are, but if it was like they said something like, i feel like your too ____, accept it, if you want to try to change it go ahead and try, but if you cant change then just stick with being yourself, youll find someone soon enough that will like you for you. Inside and out. If those answers didnt really answer your question then the last thing i will say is that, love comes bye fast and goes away quick, sometimes people feel like they should chase love, but soon enough they'll see that love is ment to be brought apon you. it will take time, for most people, but what can you do, you cant rush love? While you wait for love, don't sit on the couch eating popcorn all day, get up and out and have fun! I know that most of you feel very very very upset that they broke up with you, just know that your not alone and that a lot of people care about you, sometimes you might not even know! :)

Answer 4

do the best you can to not think about him/her and go look on for some else

Answer 5

Time will heal. Until then, start seeing other people, it will take the edge off.