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Just like any mess. You have to get rid of the old and in the relationship its the untrust, inconsideration,disrespect, resentment, hardships, etc. Get all the old crap straightened out first before moving on to new land because it will always be in the back of each of your minds. Start slow and once a week work on some old issue but also incorporate fresh outlooks. Like if either of you have a bad habit that drives the other nuts, counteract it and together come up with a new way to the old problem and that person has to work on it earnestly, every day, until it becomes the new habit. Also, compliment one another and I dont mean, your hair looks nice, those are nice to say, but only if sincere. I mean, if you like to fish, she needs to go with you every once in a while and if she likes to go to basket weaving, you need to go with her every once in a while. Going to these outtings together will give way to more understanding to how you each think and a new outlook and respect for what the other likes/dislikes. Join something together, that neither of you have done in the past but would like to give it a whirl, a fresh, healthy competition also brings new life into the old life. Remember, variety is the spice of life, you give 100% of yourself at all times and from the ground up. The three c's too, consideration, compassion and caring in all that you do....I know it will be tought but you wont know if it will work unless you try to fix it..Good luck.

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17y ago

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