How do you stop your friend from being annoying?

Answer 1

punch them
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hey, so like i dont realy think punching is the right thing to do!but my cuzin has been supper annoying thinking im her "best freind" and no offence but i absoulutly positively hate her guts-and sometimes i do wanna punch her but i realy dont think that solves the problem. im sorta tryin the lay-low type of thing and then mayb JUST MAYB she will go away but unfortunatly... i should probabley just talk to her.

i no u probably didnt wanna hear my whole back-story butrealy the truth is if u just nicely ask that person to go away or somthin i think they will get the hint.

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kick 'em till they squirm

Answer 2

You usually can't stop someone from trying to annoy you. What you can do is stop being annoyed.

The best thing to do is just get away from them and stay away. If they ask, tell them the truth: "What you are doing is annoying me and I don't want to be annoyed so I'm leaving."

If you cannot get away - for example, if it is a coworker who keeps bugging you - you'll have to learn how to ignore them, which will make them stop bugging you because they're trying to get you mad and if you won't get mad, they'll find someone else to bother. You can also turn to a supervisor or manager and request that you be allowed not to work with that person because of their behavior.

If you're dealing with someone who doesn't realize that they are annoying, try pointing out the specific behavior to them. Don't call names or say "You are annoying" but say "This behavior is annoying." This is more likely to get them to change their behavior instead of just getting defensive and getting their feelings hurt. You can also point out things that they are doing that aren't annoying, which is a great way to sooth their feelings.

Here's the trick:

1. Say something nice you've seen them doing
2. Say your feelings about whatever is going wrong - notice you don't say things like "You make me mad" or "You're annoying"
3. Use "I" messages like "I feel frustrated" or "I feel annoyed" - this is less likely to start an argument and more likely to create a mature dialogue between you
4. Say what you need from them - again, use "I" statements like "I'd like it if you would stop hitting me" or "I need for you to quit calling me names"
5. Ask them for feedback - a simple "Do you think you can do that?" or "What do you think about that?" will work fine

Here's an example:

Billy, I really like when we spend time talking about Pokemon and trying to catch new ones together. But when I get put down for not finding as good a Pokemon as you have, I feel really annoyed and frustrated. I would like it if I didn't get called names or told I'm not as good a catcher as you are. I just want to play the game and have fun. Do you think we could do that?

Answer 3

Ignore them. they are only annoying you because they know it bugs you, so if you leave it, they will get bored and move on.

i hope this helped your problem x

Answer 4

threaten them kinda like this "My dad is a pilot in the military and he can bomb your house

Answer 5

Stop insulting her. Maybe that would help.

Answer 6

be witty just think of a smart comeback to make the person annoying you look stupid or just ignore them your choice

Answer 7

Tell them to stop,if they don't after a while of you telling them threaten them and if they still don't stop tell them why they're knocked out on the ground wondering whats going on.

Answer 8

you stop talking.