You shouldn't never have to tell a girl that you want to kiss her; it needs to be natural and both of you should know when the timing is right. If you say lets kiss when you two are that close yet she will feel uncomfortable and never kiss you again. MOST LIKELY
That being said, it's hard to know what to look for if you recently started dating or still lack confidence. Girls are not terribly subtle about letting you know they are interested in you -- look for standard tics like twirling hair, glancing down when she laughs, fingernail biting and other signs of nervousness. Girls also stare at guys they are interested in, trying to make eye contact. If you see signs like these, chances are she'll be receptive to your advances.
To let her know you're interested, make strong eye contact when you talk to her, even if you're just asking her what she wants to drink. Touch her shoulder or arm during conversation and see how she responds.
If everything looks good and you want to try for a kiss, take her somewhere with few distractions and focus all your attention on her. Wait for a pause in the conversation and softly touch her face. If she turns away, back off a bit and try again later. If she doesn't turn away, lean in for the kiss. If she looks down, lift her chin gently and kiss her; girls love this (thank Hollywood).
Under no circumstances should you ever tell a girl you want to kiss her or ask her if it's OK to kiss her. Almost no guy can pull this off without looking pathetic and faintly spineless.
Neither should you take this opportunity to show her your amazing tongue action. As was said extremely well in "The Wedding Singer," aim for "church tongue" not "porno tongue." No girl really wants to have to wipe her face after a kiss.
If you get really nervous and start to freak out, resist the urge to come up with some elaborate distraction. If you've been sending out good signals, she is waiting for you to create the heat in which you will kiss each other. Killing the mood with a pointless story or sudden activity change will just confuse her and potentially annoy her, especially if she's been waiting to be kissed.
Also resist the urge to fall back on some cheesy move like yawning and stretching your arm across her shoulders. Most girls will probably start laughing in response to this manoeuvre and that's not the reaction you're looking for.
Once you've gotten through that first tentative kiss, you can move right along to earlobe nibbling, neck nuzzling and other variants. Try softly kissing her on the nape of the neck (that's the back of the neck, just below the hairline) and along the collarbone, if her top allows this. When kissing on the mouth, hold her firmly to you, with one hand on the small of her back and one hand on the back of her head or side of her face. Aim for a firm grip, not a death-grip ... she's not going to try and suddenly make a break for it. You can also hold onto her hips, her waist or her shoulders -- don't go for the butt just yet. Be aware of her as you're kissing. If she starts to pull away, give her a little slack; she may just be developing a crick in the neck and want to move into a more comfortable position.
And don't forget to come up for air once in awhile. Gaze into her eyes, stroke her face, let her give you a shy half-smile -- then go back to kissing her.
So You Want to Kiss Her?Why not simply ask "May I kiss you?" Sometimes it is the obvious that is the last thing we consider.BETTER YET: As a former teenage girl, I can say, there is nothing wrong with telling a girl you think she is beautiful, and you want to kiss her! Don't worry if she says no. You made her day! Blushes are good!
Tell him.
He will usually move away or tell you he doesn't fell comfortable with it.
If you want to french kiss him (tongue kiss), go ahead and do it. Otherwise tell him to back off.
Get yourself within a few feet of the guy and ask him, "Do you want to kiss me?" Works every time.
I tell him that the guy I'm about to kiss is the guy who behaves and looks like you.
Kiss him.
Get in a group and play truth or dare and get one of your friends to dare him to kiss you.
Just kick him in the crotch and run!
You could... a) just tell him how you feel b) flirt c) just kiss him without warning! ;)
Ok, this is a really good question. Below I will tell you what you have to do. You can glance at his lips a lot tell him u want to or just kiss him
he will make it happen and he will kiss you you dont need to tell
tell him how you feel and maybe he'll kiss you