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First, be brave and tell your dad he needs to stop and get help. Let him know how much he is hurting you. If he can do that and your relationship can be mended, Mom need not know. The reason I say this is because your dad is not a monster. He is just emotionally distraught, but if you tell your mom, it could destroy your family. However, if Dad is unwilling to change, you have to tell her.

Prepare her for it. Be blunt. Forgive her if she refuses to believe you. People often disregard things that are difficult to hear. Persuade her the best you can that you are telling the truth. If she cannot be persuaded, tell someone of authority. Be brave. If you do not take quick action, it will probably continue and lead to more than fondling.

If you are speaking of something that happened in the past and no longer happens, tell a psychiatrist. At that point, it is you that needs to deal with it and you needn't put that burden on your mother.

Either way, you probably need counseling. Don't let someone tell you medication is required, however. What you need is to talk it out and learn to deal with it. You must not let the bad actions of your father control the rest of your life.

exactly but if he's done it more than once you need to confront him and tell the police because if you don't the likelyhood of it is that he'll just keep on doing it.

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