Tell her you want a divorce.
If you want to have sex with other men's penises, then you should tell your wife you are gay and apologize for pretending that you were not gay when you married her. Then the two of you should try to reach an agreement as to whether you will stay married or divorce. You should be having this conversation with your wife, or a therapist, counselor, etc. You should not rely on strangers to tell you what to do.
She is your wife, your other half. You should be able to just tell her directly.
U want too be with someone else.
If she's really a man.
Yes.
If you want to be a gender that your body is not you are a Trans-person.
You don't. You do that to a gay man, and a transsexual woman is not a gay man. Besides, if you want to have sex with a transsexual woman, you can wait until after surgery and do it in the front just like with any other woman.
Just talk to his wife.
it mean in a public setting u would not be able to tell that they are a transsexual
That depends on the wife. Some women stay even after the sex change and others divorce.
He didn't want to.
Dont.