How do you tell your wife you're in love with another woman?

Answer 1

Well, it all depends on the climate of your marriage. Obviously it isn't good, given the fact that you are having an affair and have fallen in love with your mistress. Perhaps seeing a therapist initially on your own to discern the correct approach to hurting your wife, not only because you want to leave her, but because you are in love with another woman.

Most women know when something is up, even if they choose not to see it. Your wife will be deeply injured, but I'm guessing she already has an idea that something is awry.

At any rate, you need to concern yourself with her feelings in your approach, and not just absolving yourself of the guilt by confessing.

good luck!

Answer 2

say this " when i fell in love with you i was for sure it would last forever, but now i know that I was wrong. The past years with you were great but and I appreciate all the things you did for me and all the unconditional love you have showed and shared with me. I have thought about this question over and over again: What happens when the right one comes long but your with the wrong one? I told myself that they should stay with the wrong person and find every way to make it right, but i realized that I would of have made a big mistake doing that. I cant let that right one just slip away from my grasp so I must tell you that I have found the right one for me and I'm terribly sorry that I have to tell you this but I know I'm not the right one for you because if I was I wouldn't feel this way and I know you will meet some body better. But I have to do what I think is right and I hope you find it in your heart to forgive me. I will always have a love for you because you taught me so much and I thank you for that. I want you to move on and really find the right one for you and I want you to be very happy. I'm sorry but this was meant to be this way I know it hurts and I would probably never feel the pain that you are going through but this is the right thing to do and i know deep down inside you think so too. I'm sorry and you will always be something special to me. Now take this chance to find your true love because some people never get that opportunity again and now you do, and you can think hard about it and have the excitement of falling in love all over again. Thank you for the good years I will never forget them..you will always be my first love." and that is what you say. I hope this answers your question.