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This is different for everyone, so you need to learn what your girlfriend likes. However, it may help you to know a few things that a lot of women like. For me, being treated with kindness and respect all the time is a major turn on. A common misconception that men tend to have is that they think women will like the same thing that they do. This is usually not the case. While guys tend to like it when their partner goes strait for their sexual parts, girls tend to like the opposite. We like it when our partner touches everything BUT our sexual parts. Then later, when we are really turned on, he can begin to softly touch our nipples, etc. _______________________________________________________________ I am a guy, and I am answering this question because I know this from experience. The above answer about respect and kindness is absolutely correct. Treating a girl with love, kindness, respect, and care is the best way. My girlfriend's ex-boyfried treated her horribly. He forced her to do things that she did not want to do. As a result, she left him never to go back, and was scarred bady by what he did, and had a severe mistrust in all guys. Shortly thereafter, I began to fall in love with her, and we got together. I have made it very clear to her that I am not interested solely in sex and that I am in no way after what many guys are, and that I am with her baceuse I love her with all my heart. She slowly gained trust in me as a guy, and I have discovered that it has indeed turned her on from time to time. She often allows us to do things together that I never imagined she ever would. In short, treat her with respect, and as long as sex isn't what you're after, it'll pay off. I suppose that if a girl knows that that's NOT what her guy is after, then she's okay with it. It makes perfect sense. Usully making out turns a girl on. Its always good to figure out what turns them on though

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