How do you write a love letter to your lover?

Answer 1

Put on some romantic music (or any music that inspires you) and be alone somewhere you enjoy. Take your time! Just as if the person was sitting right there with you, write what is in your heart. It doesn't matter if you are the best at the English language or your writing isn't that good and sometimes you just don't always put the words together right, that only makes the letter all the more precious to the receiver. When it comes from the heart you can't go wrong.

I can't tell you what to say or it's cheating, but here are some pointers:

If it's a woman tell her how beautiful she is inside and out. If it's a man tell him how safe and loved he makes you feel. Tell them you miss them every minute you are away from them. Express how you feel inside about them and how much you need them.

Some of the most beautiful love letters that were ever written were during wars, and especially the Civil War, since the writers were involuntarily separated for a long period of time, with no assurance of ever seeing each other again.

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Just think about who you are going to give it to, but don't say "I love you" when you have just met. Try to be sweet, but at the same time be funny, cute, and (if possible) still cool.

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Answer 2

You should tell her how you truly feel about her. Honesty is key in relationships. and she'll probably adore you for it

As I am no expert on love, this is merely my opinion of what I would like to hear in a love letter.

First of all, you need to consider what the person is like (if you don't know them well enough, take a wild guess!), if they're a 'romantic' they would like to hear romantic things. However if the person is quite emotionless and hard, leave the soppiness out. Simply tell her you like her, in a profound way without making yourself sound corny.

How old is she?! If she's a teen (as I am myself), she would love to hear how much you like her, compliment her A LOT and make her feel special, as if she's the only one for you.

As the age increases, be sure to pack in everything I said prior to this and more, as with more years, comes more experience...A women in her 30's would know more about relationships than a teenager would and she needs impressing more (as she's already had her fair share of rotten men!'

If she's in a relationship - DON'T GO THERE! It'll only cause trouble for yourself remember there are plenty more single fish in the sea.

If you're already in a relationship with this girl, you should know what to write - as it should only come from your heart.

If not, you have a lot of impressing to do, as I said earlier compliments, compliments and more compliments. As you may have guessed, we love to hear that you want us. You may want to express this in a poem, but be sure not to use the 'roses are red...' line - that's majorly corny! The way you choose to write it is up to you, however I would love to receive a 'traditional' love letter as this is so much sweeter and may make her reflect back onto earlier times in the world when love was actually considered more than just a physical attraction. This'll get you somewhere!

So, in a 'round about' way, you need to consider:

* Her romance level

* The kind of person she is

* Her attitude towards love, and maybe even to you!

* Her age

* Her current relationship status

* The way to express yourself Via poem, story, song or just a simple letter)

Signing the letter off is the hard part, you have to think, if I put 'From Anonymous' will this girl either think 'Oh God, he's a stalker' and resort in calling the police or 'How intriguing, a mystery man' and in that case she'll want to know more about you. Therefore, think whether the person is laid back or whatever Don't play hard to get if she finds out it's you, that's our job! Oh and seal it with a kiss (just the one!).

If you're doing a poem, set it out in a heart shape. If you're doing a story, add little anecdotes that give little hints you like her. If you're doing a song, don't include lyrics you heard on the radio last week (this shows lack of self thought!). And last but not least (the option I'd pick!) is the letter, don't go on, get to the point and express your feelings!

As I mentioned earlier, this is only what I'd like to hear in a love letter, maybe you should ask someone close to her what they'd do?! Just don't ask her friends as they're most likely to tell her what you have planned. Her mum maybe?! Post if on a forum and get lots of peoples opinions, I'm just one girl out of millions - the phrase 'What women want' should be replaced with the phrase 'What (Place woman's name here) wants' as all want different things!

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Answer 3

find out if they like you first, if they don't and you just wanna get it out, write it anonymously. if they do like you, and you think it'll help, put your name on it.

Answer 4

it depends, but don't write too much, don't write anything weird. that's all i can think of

Answer 5

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