How does a 45yr old man get older women in bed?

Answer 1

Here Are My 4 Rules for Flirting with Women

Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable

doing. Many guys are afraid they'd get arrested if they were seen flirting with women during the day. I think this fear is very common, and it holds a lot of guys back from approaching women.

I want to give you some of my favorite strategies for flirting with

women that you can put to work right away.

First of all, I want you to know that the term "flirting" is really

just chick-speak for "pickup." Guys talk about "picking up" on

girls, and women talk about "flirting" with guys.

It's a subtle difference in language and terminology that you need

to understand so that you don't risk turning off a woman. Women

love to flirt, but hate the thought of being picked up on - which

connotes fun and playfulness. Pickup, on the other hand, is serious and sex-oriented, which turns women off.

The next thing you need to be aware of is that we are all born

natural flirts. Just watch kids when they're playing. Watch their

body language and their facial expressions. Watch how they roll

their eyes, and how they use the tone of their voice to get their

way with adults, as well as other kids. They are EXPERTS!

You were once, too, and all you need to do is tap back into it.

Now, my rules for flirting with women:

RULE #1) Flirting is always acceptable in a humorous tone. If you

get serious, a woman is going to turn off and tune you out.

RULE #2) Flirt to GIVE, not to get.

Outcome thinking sabotages your results. When you create a

situation where you have to get a result from something you do, you

no longer feel fun.

All conversations where someone wants something from the other

person inevitably become uncomfortable.

RULE #3) Flirt for your own FUN.

If it's not fun, you won't keep doing it. Self-reinforcing habit.

You must have a positive motivational reason to flirt, or you'll

feel like it's just another chore and you'll stop doing it.

TRUE STORY:

I was at the best buy the other day buying a movie, and the cute

cashier asked me: "Can I see your credit card real fast?"

So I literally pulled it out of my wallet and slid it back in about

a split second.

She laughed and her body language changed instantly. Now our

interaction was no longer just business. And I did that because I'm

Italian, and we just LOVE to bust people's balls like that.

Flirting with women and teasing are practically the exact same

thing.

RULE #4) Flirt with EVERY woman, child, and small furry mammal you encounter.

Flirting is an attitude that comes through in your vibe. If you

only approach at-tractive women, you'll just create a mental barrier

for yourself, and more anxiety when you find a woman you "really"

want to meet.

Flirting is about creating an abundance mindset. The more abundant

you feel, the less you appear needy to a woman.

Now, HOW do you get started?

Here's my 3 step formula for flirting with women:

Step 1) Indirect Question - Ask her something about wherever you

are, and keep it situationally relevant. In other words, if you're

in a coffee shop, you need to ask a question that relates to fact

that you're both in this coffee shop.

Step 2) Use a sassy comment

Here's what I like to use. I call it the "Duh" question:

"Do you think they serve the drinks really HOT here?"

Then she usually answers me with, "Uhm, yeah..." And after she

looks at me like I'm from another planet, I smile, wink at her, and

say, "You didn't really think I was serious, did you?"

And the teasing has begun...

Then you have a playful conversation.

And finally, the last step in flirting with women is this:

Step 3) YOU leave the conversation first.

When you're the one to control the ending of the conversation, your

confidence will go up ten times more than if she tells you, "I've

got to get going."

So don't let her get the drop on you.

Create what I call the Sacrificial 20: Leave with nothing for the

first 20 women you flirt with. No phone number, no nothing.

What I see is that guys will argue for - and give all their power

over to the belief that is holding them back - their own fear of

flirting with women and talking with women.

Answer 2

Allright now these plans have not completely succeeded yet but here is the low down... it will be one of the hardest things you may try. So i have this crush, so what i need to find out is what she likes, compare that with what you like, her cellphone number, and where she lives. With some of this information you must test some experiments. The one that is valid for all girls is when you learn her cell number. First you must call her and she has to pick up. Tell her you had a wrong number and youre sorry. If a conversation starts go with it(it's good trust me.) the final part of this is that when you or she is going to have to hang up then, if she says any form of goodbye it is positive. if not heh heh, goodluck. Another all girl experiment is that you must observe how much you catch he looking at you a day, and how much she smiles when you make eye contact. since i am not very funny and i try hard to be, i always try to see if she laughs at my jokes. Also if you have a teacher who argues with you on certain things you say during class(usually science) and if she tries to come to your defence, the trust bond will increase between you. you should also visa versa. Check for signs of atraction such as she's biting her nails playing with her hair, blushingwhen you talk to her or when she asks a question to you. When you think the signs are clear, nows the time to ask her out. If she is part of a pack of girls that is not the time instead approach her when she is alone or try the wrong number theory. you will have to use your greatest imagination on where to ask her. now if you want to try what i thought ask her to a local little league Baseball game{WARNING: there should be someone she knows on one of the baseball teams!} for this theory you should try asking in these ways I was wondering if you'd like to go to a baseball game with me this week end? I'm going to a baseball game this weekend. wanna come? What would you say if iasked you out to see a baseball game? Wanna go to a base ball game with me this weekend? There must be food, no rain, and no dirty seats!! PS, if you were planning on taking her to a movie, or lunch replace those with "baseball game" in list.

Answer 3

You gotta have game

You need something men her age don't have.