answersLogoWhite

0

I am just trying to figure out feelings of my girlfriend. Here is the situation. She and I have been friends for years. I have been friends with her ex also, but i have always loved her and known that, but never touched her because of respect for him. I am 18 and just went to college, she is a junior in high school. She and i would talk alot about everything all the time and was/is my best friend. ... anyway long story short, we hooked up alot over summer starting with my graduation night and she and him broke up but still talk alot. She tells me she still hasn't gotten over him and he knows that we hook up, but not that we have been actually dating for 3 months, and i have been at college, but come home for breaks plus she came out to visit me. She still has alot of feelings for him and gets like crying over him jealous of the girls he hooks up with, and we talk about it alot.

I am on Christmas break right now. Two weeks ago she cheated on me with him, but says it was good because it helped her figure out her feelings for him and know she for sure wants to be with me. Her love for me is not the question.. i know she does alot. Anyway, after that i began talking to her more and more about it, and after tonight she was crying and talking to him all night after she found out he has been hooking up with this one chick, i got really mad and we got in a huge fight. When she is with me she loves me and is mine, but still hasn't told her ex about the fact we are dating because it would hurt him too much, and she wants to stay friends with him.

My question is, how do i get her to a) tell him about us, and b), any strategies that would help her forget about him. Keep in mind they both play Basketball together, have same classes, and have same friend group. I suggested her to stop talking to him all together but she got mad and refused.

I am thinking of breaking up to let her figure stuff out, but i know she will get back with him because it is easier and comfortable to her... they have been together for 3 years. Its extremely complicated, but i need any help from females to figure out her mindset, or males ideas on how to deal... Its also hard because despite how it may sound, i am very handsome, confident, going to be a doctor, going to top 5 schools in nation... and really cool, and have alot of prospects, but this girl i love and don't want to lose. HELP!

User Avatar

Wiki User

13y ago

What else can I help you with?

Related Questions

How do you get a girl love you?

Show her that you love her first!:)


Do you love farting?

Well to be quite honest with you yes i do love farting its funny and feels so good once you have pushed it out. I also loved hearing a girl leting them rip to. In my view a girl that is relaxed to let rip around a guy must be a awsome girl as she would most likely to be a relaxed and fun kind of girl to do this in the first place.


What if your still in love with your first love but the problem is that he is in love with another girl what do you do how do you get him back?

luv,me


Does the person you love love you too?

That is a great question, usually you can tell.. but first you need to answer my question is the person you love a boy or girl?girl


How do you tell a girl that you love her for the first time you saw her?

Well, something like this needs to be careful with, and about considering not everyone believes in love at first sight sort-of thing. You should consider what she feels about love emotions, and what her point of view is on it. You need to get to know her, as I would not recommend telling her such a thing without even talking to her and what not.


What was peters point of view of his and anne franks first kiss?

love


Does Kevin Woo love any girl?

first of all , we should say i love you on the first april


How do you express first love?

by giving chocolet in love shape 2 girl


Can the first girl you fall in love with be the one?

This depends on how you view "The One". Some would say that you don't really fall in love until you meet "The One" so in that case the first girl you fall for is the one. However, if "The One" is that easy relationship which needs no work, then chances are, "The One" does not exist. All relationships need work and communication. it always depends, because there is always a first love but this doesnt mean that is your love for ever. but for example me, the first boy i fall in love with is the one for me, but i gues that im not the one for him it always depends, because there is always a first love but this doesnt mean that is your love for ever. but for example me, the first boy i fall in love with is the one for me, but i gues that im not the one for him


How do you make love to a girl for the first time?

Be careful.


What was Hitler's love life like?

The first girl Hitler was in love with was Stephanie Janston


How realize to girl of your love of first crush?

say wha?