How does a teenage girl get a boy to ask her out?

Answer 1

I don't think it matters how old the teenager is. A teenager is 13 and over. I don't see anything wrong with having a boyfriend at that age, it's the actions of the girl/boy friend that I have the problems with.

When I was a teenager I would have given almost anything to have a boyfriend for a long time. DON'T DO THAT! Don't give a boy whatever he wants just so you can call him your boyfriend.

Be yourself, that's how you get a REAL boyfriend. I know it doesn't seem like it, but your time will come and if you are patient, the boy will be someone to cherish. If you are impatient, the boy will not be the one for you and you will most likely lose him as quick as you found him.

Take your time and get to know someone. Truly make an effort to know him. What music he likes, what sports he likes, what does he want to do with his life? They notice!

If you don't get a boyfriend as a teenager, who cares! Have some fun just being with your friends. You rarely get that opportunity again throughout your life. You get lots of opportunities to date, but not to play with your friends.

Everyone's different some teenage girl prefer to just have fun with friends and not bother with boyfriends, some have boyfriends, basically be yourself, every now and then it's good to have a change though, this may attract boys however don't change yourself too much because then you'll end up a fake.

I Know a girl who by the time she was 11 has dad about 200 boyfriends she is now 14 and has had many more!!

Answer 2

Be yourself and dont be a jerk. Answer Be nice to her. Be sincere and honest. Do not say anything to your buddies about her that you would not want her to hear, Because she will hear of it. Remember little things about her: her brother's name, her favorite music, etc. The answer above is right: be yourself. If she doesn't like you, she just doesnt like you. It's a shame, but it happens. It isn't her fault or yours, so don't break your heart wondering if you could have done anything different. It makes you look like an idiot. She's still a good person and you are, too.

Answer 3

A teen boy can get a teen girl by being themselves. Don't be someone you aren't, because if you and the girl go further into the relationship and there are things you lied about or didn't tell her about it may end the relationship between you two. That will hurt either you/her because if one of you fall in love with one another then you can get hurt by the outcome or the situation. Just be yourself no matter what happens. =)

Do not try to be the person she is looking for because that could just be MORE harmful, when you quit doing that. Try "hanging" around, get to know her more. Try asking her to a movie, dance (NOT FORMAL) or other social activity, but not in a date-like manner. Like if you play sports, try getting her to come to the game. Then once you're good friends, and you know each other a little more, then ask her out, or whatever. Take her on a date then ask her out afterwards. Make sure your always on your best manners around girls, for instance: DO NOT scratch or pick your nose, do not do stupid stuff around her, like: smoke, drugs, even under-age alchohol drinking. It's bad. Some girls want a relationship to go slow and some don't so if you care about them let them pick the speed.

As a girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend a lot of what people say is common about this kind of stuff is, I do not agree with because everyone is different one of the reasons I broke up with my boyfriend was that he was too clingy. Don't listen to that stuff just if she does anything different talk to her about it. If she does her hair different or looks like she is pissed off just talk to her about it so you know what happened and can try to fix it before she breaks up with you.

Well I'm a single guy too and you have to just be yourself! I don't like a guy that shows off all the time either! You should try to say hi once in a while then start a conversation with her, then you ask her out on a date. That process will take about two weeks if you want her to like you. And DON'T STALK HER TO FIND OUT WHERE SHE LIVES!

I know, everyone is saying this but... be yourself! It really does work. It might be nerve-racking, but be relaxed. As a teenage girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend, we did so because we were too nervous and we never kissed. So be spontaneous, and don't regret anything that made you both smile.

Ok to be honest with you it depends, say your at the Beach do you need to be yourself then, no cause you are probably never going to meet them again, but if your wanting to date someone at your high school or anything then you need to be yourself

Answer 4

Im a guy and i should know.You have to give him signs that you are interested in him. Give him clues!Also every now and then give him little folded up paper notes that say HI! with a little smily face.

Answer 5

You can never MAKE someone like you but here is my theory.

*step 1- you ask to go to the mall with him and a big group of friends

*step 2- you ask him to go to the mall again but with 3 other people

*step 3- you ask him to go to the movies with you friend and her boyfriend

*step 4- you ask him to go to the movies but just you guys.

Then if he truly likes you and sees how "cool" you are he'll ask you out.

Answer 6

Well hopefully you guys arn't too young because seducing someone can lead to alot of heartache if your not ready for the outcomes. But you can always be charming and considerate. Most girls will like that. It wouldn't hurt to keep yourself looking nice either.

Answer 7

I have a huge crush and he i in 4th grade and i am in 5th grade and i think he likes me me and him have a perfect connection. i think we where meant to be together