This is probably the most widely asked question, I will post the answer now and then move this questin to the frequently asked question category. Thousands of abuse cases are reported every year but, many more go unreported. If you or somebody you know is being abused contact your local police. Go to a Shelter. The abuse will never end and it will keep getting worse as time goes on. Until somebody dies. Abuse in any form is not healthy to a relationship. It can cause many long term affect on the body and the mind. An abusive realtionship can affect your children and any relationship you have after this one. It causes psychological dammage both to everyone around you.
Getting out of an abusive relationship is the same, whether you've been together 30 days or 30 years. Please read the info in the link I provided below.
For a man, he would not have the mother to be a good role model on how he should treat women. For the woman, she would not be able to have a mother to guide her in becoming a confident female. The effect of having an abusive maternal relationship could take years to sort through.
Leaving a relationship - abusive or not - is not easy. all I can say is it is hard especially if you have kids you have to get to the point where enough is enough and move on try to find something to occupy your time but dont jump into another relatinship because you will need to recover from this one,My son father I was married to was very abusive and I finally left him but it took me 9 years but I can tell you it is a great deal of relief but be careful of your next relationship because if you see the signs then you know to get away from this one before it is too late
If your kids are young and adorable, then he will remain a good father for now and just be abusive against his partner. But when the kids get older and tougher to handle in their teenage years, then there is a pretty good chance that the father will become abusive against them as well. Most abuse comes from the fear of losing control.The children aren't safe, they as well are at risk, that would be enough of an argument to pack your bags.
Yes, it is possible if you both make an effort to do so. My father and I are slowly repairing a relationship that had been destroyed as a child. it has taken many years, but I can understand more on why he was the way he was. It doesn't make it right, but it helps to understand.
Short term counseling. Snowskeeper: Don't try to do it too soon after the relationship, just get comfortable with other people first. Then try it.
There's not much you can do besides be there for her when she needs you. That includes calling authorities if needed; even if its your dad which I'm just assuming it is. One of the best things you can do is just hug her and tell her you love her.
see a lawyer ASAPfind out your options and get out
Unfortunately, there is very little that can be done. The court systems are designed to protect the mother/child relationship no matter how abusive it may become.
I don't know who said "every out of place spoken word and every action is kept in memory as abuse", but there is a difference between an abusive action (such as name-calling or a slap) and sustained abuse. A one-time abusive action should be forgiven (as well as sustained abusive behavior) in order to free the victim from bitterness, anger and the desire for revenge. Forgiveness is healthy. Keeping a single abusive action "in memory as abuse" may be holding a grudge and is unhealthy for all involved.
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when your partner goes to work pack everything up and leave That is NOT love, it is an abusive relationship and you KNOW deep inside you deserve better. You CAN and WILL survive without him, you CAN and WILL be free and you CAN and WILL live without him. Contact a refuge or an expert for confidential advice, they can set you up in a safe house. Don't wait until its too late.