How to choose between husband or lover?

Answer 1

ANSWER:

You do have a big problem right now, why? you were comparing your wife with your mistress. Do you think your being fair towards your wife? How will you feel if your wife compares you with another man. If you want to know the answer, one thing you can do, let go your wife so that way she will not feel humiliated and not worthy of you. From your question, your already know who you wanted, so I think the best solution of your problem is give your wife her freedom so that way she will not have to deal with the pain.

ANSWER:

Your wife. After all, if you can't grow up and work it out with her, how would you be able to do so with the mistress? And if you feel that you could be able to work things out with your mistress - no matter what - then congratulations! Now use that new found resolve to prove it - by working things out with your wife, no matter what!

ANSWER:

You are wondering which one you want to keep,am I right? Your wife from your mistress. I don't know the facts of your situation or why your making a decision. Right now it sound like your love for your wife is not whole anymore or even strong enough for you to pick her.

As a wife I will tell you the difference between a wife from a mistress. A wife is that person who will stand by you, be there for you, and do everything for you. A wife is a person that will cook, clean, wash clothes, and at the same time take care of the children ( if you have children). A wife is a person that will wait for you if you come home very late at night. A wife is a person that will take care of you when you get sick. A wife is a person that will carry your children in a good sense of act. And there are more if you want to know, but why should you if you didn't have a problem comparing this two women who never knew each others or even being friends.

Now let me draw you a picture of a mistress, she is the one that will give you and satisfy you in bed because she knew a few style. A mistress is the lucky one because she didn't have no children ( if she never did ) and can give you all the attention that you deserve because your wife is to busy taking care of things. A mistress is the person that will listen to you when you feel like talking. A mistress is the person that will always available when you call her and wanted to see her. A mistress is the person that will not hear you snore at night sleeping. A mistress is the person that will not wash your dirty clothes, pick things up because you left it in the couch or wherever you hang your stuff. A mistress is the person who's lucky enough to be the one you run to when you feel bored, or even just because.

Now I will tell you what's right, pick your mistress because the two of you need to realize that hurting someone will be wrong. Pick your mistress because your wife do not deserve you in her life. Pick your mistress because she is not your maid, and she will always be there for you specially in bed. The finale of your problem is, please divorce your wife so that way, the issue, baggage, and betrayal will not go on her part. If I offend you, I don't mean to but you wanted to know which one you can pick. The mistress.

Answer 2

If there are no children involved; the lover wants you to leave your husband; the lover is better endowed than the husband and a better lover; then choose the lover.

Answer 3

well, its whoever you love more, you mistress works with you and your wife been with you your whole life so its who ever you want?