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When someone does not want you but you want them, you must take back your power and not want them any more, I know that's not easy! but if he was meant for you then you would still be together, if not then he's not meant for you! It's nothing about you or what you have or have not done! It's just not meant to be! so take back your emotional power and move on!Nothing has any power over you other than that of which you give it!

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Whether you two are meant to be or not is not easy to determine. Many people will give you different views and opinions.

It takes two to acknowledge each other. From your question I assume that you are willing and possibly still have feelings for him. Whether he still has feelings for you and how strong they are is something that needs to be answered.

How you get your boyfriend back rests a lot on what type of person he is, what happened between you two, what was the cause of the breakup, was it a friendly breakup, was he and were you influenced by others etc etc.

Personally I know many guys that are simply very stubborn or very scared to make a comeback. Judging by many posts by women from what I have read, I don't particularly blame them. I think it is important to always leave a 'small gap in the door', do not totally close it. At the end of the day, don't we all want to be happy? Closing the door could take one possibility of that away.

You might want to try and give your boyfriend and yourself some time after the breakup. Hopefully still being in some form of contact for a short time immediately after the breakup. For everyone the amount of time suitable is different for each individual, therefore it might be best to think about how much time your friend needs.

I hope you two have the "relationship tools" you need to fix and build up a happy bond together.

Good Luck.

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13y ago

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