That's really hard. My advise is to be as open and honest with each other as you can; and, if it's possible, to still be friends.
I was a cheerleader with him and he was my partner. I sat him down and talked to him, before he got a chance to drop me, and explained that I knew things weren't working out between us but we had to get over it. We stayed best friends.
Look for new girls and hook up with as many as you can. Its shallow but it works perfectly.
It depends if they hate you afterwards. If they do you don't really want to stay friends because they don't understand. The person I was with didn't hold anything against me and kept acting as normal.
I say that you should just ignore them. Don't give them the cold shoulder but don't talk to them unless they talk to you first. My best friend and I haven't had a conversation in about a month and a half. As time goes by, it gets easier. If you feel like crying, do it in private because keeping those emotions inside of you makes you more prone to doing something you will regret. Think about what your friend did to you. Are you willing to give them a second chance? I wouldn't advise it though because I gave my best friend many more chances and I caused myself unnecessary pain. What she did was very extreme though. If it's that extreme, definitely just ignore her/him. You might want to find a way to distract yourself for the first few days/weeks.
I would agree to keep yourself busy for the first few weeks, its the hardest. And don't act before you have REALLY thought about it; regret is never a good way to go. But I sure wouldn't isolate myself from him/her, or be trying to act like I'm alright when I am upset about it. It would also depend on how bad the break up was. If it were something completely uncalled for, as in something stupid, or mindless, or just being cruel to get back on a low level. It also depends on how you want to leave the relationship. Either in a good way (staying friends), or a bad way (as in like never talking to each other ever again). If your headed toward the good way, then start out acting like friends. It might be hard (if the break up was bad) but later, you wont regret keeping a friendship later on in life. But if your heading toward never talking to each other again, then trying not to talk. If you have to, that's just what happens. But I don't recommend doing that, losing a friend over a break up. It will be like World War 3 if your the one who is hurt the most and trying to keep the friendship afterward (same as if it were reversed). No matter where its going, just don't let your angry over come your decision. A feeling of hate is strong, but shouldn't be strong enough to destroy, ruin, and trash a saveable relation. If a second chance seems way too extreme for what happened then just stay as acquaintances.
You will have to make up your mind and realize that we all have these relationships that hurt when they're over. There's nothing you can do about being human. Once you have forgiven yourself for being human, and made up your mind that life is too short to dwell on the past, you will be on your way to the future and new things.
If I was you, I wouldn't leave this person alone until you got an apology out of him or her. Sometimes they will crack and just make up. If they don't, either you get an "I'm sorry", or you have a real reason to be mad at them and even "snitch" on them.
That is quite hard as you were best friends with them. I would probably leave them alone and make some new friends, this gives you the chance to make new friendships and step out of your comfort zone making new friends. Hope this helps :)
Its always nice to consider a friendship after a breakup but it doesn't always work out that way. Right after a breakup you both need to take time away from one another as to get by and over this - then see what there is down the road.
It depends on the circumstances of the breakup. It sounds like what you have now could be a friendship. A friendship is something to be cherished and not taken lightly. A friendship can last a lifetime and is something that we all need. If you want it to be more than that, the other person has to agree, otherwise you could lose the friendship and that would be a tragedy.
don't waste your time
* If you want to keep your friendship then respect the fact that he has the girl and you don't. The only time you should step in is if they breakup. Never lose a friend over a girl!
The best way to get over a breakup is to find someone for yourself.
You either do nothing, because you are just trying to get over the breakup, or, you can talk to someone about it because you have breakup anxiety.
breakup, death, virus, fence, mountain breakup, death.
over the phone. at her house
Häagen Dazs.
try keeping your friendship, it may pay off in the future
its possible, but the only way to tell is to ask them
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