How to get over an ex girlfriend that has cheated?

Answer 1

BURN HER PICTURES AND BUY A DOG.

ANSWER:

You don't, give yourself some space and lots of time. You just can't close your eyes and when you open it, your problem is gone away. There's no such things easy problem with easy answer. One thing you also need to do, ask yourself why your wife did it. Have you been there for her, how about times to be available for her. I always believe that no person can do such immoral things if they're happy.

There are some married husband or wife that will cheat just because they want to prove to themselves they can still do it, even if they're married. Some will just do it and make an excuse later. Try to talk to your wife, ask her what you wanted to know so you can get some closure. Try not to believe when and if she told you that "they are only friends" maybe friends with benefit. Or she can also tell you that she made a mistakes, that can't be her excuse, because if its a mistakes ask her why she kept doing it, but because you caught her red handed, she turn to this excuse, she made a mistakes.

I am a woman and take my words for it, I know the feelings. One but not the least, if you can and wanted to, talk to your pastor or priest. This people will help you get a piece of mind. It did to me and I think it will to you as well...

I agree that you never get over it but i don't agree that you should worry what you might have done. I don't know how anyone can remain married to a person that they don t trust or cant believe what they say. and if you decide you can trust them and believe them you are naive or stupid. Most women have affairs because they are bored and crave excitement and romance and once they have experienced the thrill of an affair they will keep longing for it. Many woman who cheat will cheat again at some stage and that is a fact. You will live in constant worry, suspicion and doubt until eventually one of you can no longer take it. I divorced my wife even though i still loved her because I couldn't live like that.

With the exception of marriages of convenience - there is no other solution but to divorce her. Take the pain now and get over it or suffer forever. I don't believe there is any other alternative,

Answer 2

time, time, and more time. Learn from your experience, and eventually you will be able to trust, and open up again. Just remember to always communicate in the future. After going through a relationship that ends with a cheating partner, it's easy to get hurt again. Make sure that doesn't happen by always fully expressing your feelings, no matter how silly it seems.

Answer 3

No one likes to be cheated on because it ends up like a grieving period just like if you lost someone to death that you loved very much. First you are shocked, then you cry, them you blame yourself; then comes the guilt and finally anger! Many people have had boyfriends (or girlfriends) cheat on them and the wise ones take this experience and learn from it. They get to know what they want in a mate and what they don't want. My first husband cheated on me and I experienced all of the above, but finally realized he was selfish, arrogant, disloyal and dishonest and he had to be responsible for his own actions. I had nothing to do with it. Some men just can't stay with one woman. I knew he would cheat on me again so I divorced him and never looked back. I am so glad I did because several years later I met and married a wonderful man and we've been married a long time. I refused to let one man make me distrust all men. The hurt will soon go away and to make it go by quicker get busy with either schooling, working, going out with your friends to have fun and open yourself back up to the dating world. There is that special guy out there for you.

Answer 4

If she is hot enough, you can probably forgive her, if she isn't that hot then just decide whether or not you really like her and the answer should come to you.