How to tell your lovers wife that he is cheating on her?

Answer 1

Having an affair with a married man, leaves some kind of dirt on your conscience. Everyone knows it's wrong. No matter what the circumstances are. He is just married to someone else.

He loved or loves his wife, then there's you.

In the middle unfortunately.

You don't have to be responsible for letting the wife know of her husband's terrible mistakes, though unless you are quitting this affair with him.

Otherwise telling the wife about it just because you want to 'see' her hurt is unfortunately not spiritually or intellectually productive for your growth in this world.

Answer 2

If you feel the need to tell her be straight forward and tell her but be prepared for questions and its best to have proof to be able to back up your accusations. With that being said you have to ask yourself if it is your place to be the one telling such things to someone to begin with and weigh your options because you have to know you are going to be turning lives upside down and the carrier of bad news. Choose wisely and do what you think you should do.

Answer 3

You tell by

A

TELLING.

1. Tell wife
2. Tell woman
3. Tell husband (Relatives of wife will beat or in the least threaten. Some people may blackmail.)

B

Tell PROMPTLY

C

GET EVIDENCE

Be sure that some proof/evidence is in hand before the wife confronts her husband or the other woman.

Dr. Ashok Koparday

Marriage Counselor

Answer 4

It's not your place to tell her. It's his. She may already know or suspect. But chooses to ignore it. Happens more often than not.

And she will not blame him... she will blame you.

It is easier to be angry at you.. then it is to face the problems in the marriage that made him cheat. She may tighten the reigns on him, but eventually, they will go back to status quo. And he will do it again with someone else.

Rinse and Repeat.

Answer 5

This question has been answered many times and some useful tips have been given which you should take note of.

Women are devious creatures and are able to look you in the eyes as if to say "Are you accusing me of....?". You will have to be very clever to find out if she is cheating. Surmising is not enough, you have to have some firm evidence that she is seeing someone else. Some ways of telling are 1. She will be overly loving towards you. If she says she is going out with the girls she will but on the sexiest dress she has, and make herself up more than usual. When she returns home she will look exactly the same as when she went out. She may even be a little flushed but she will have an excuse for that i.e It is that time of the month. She will have sex with you and expect you to keep it going as long as you can. If your needs are satisfied more than usual then it may be that she did not have the time to be satisfied by her lover.

Notice if there is any talking behind the hand by your neighbours, as someone may have seen her doing things she should not have been doing. Eventually she will slip up, for it is difficult to remember all the lies she will have told.

Answer 6

If husband is in hurry and he does and tell you where

also if he doesnt answer phone calls

he also spends money for weird reasons

hope it helped