I have known this guy for years now i think im falling for him but he has a girlfriend he is real confident so normal signs are hard to read any help?

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i just wanted to be able to write abit more about my situation with this guy, so you guys can perhaps help me a little more.

well i have known him years, and ages ago, i kinda of liked him, but it wasent anything special. hes a hands on friend where he would hug you all the time, even if he was with his girlfriend. as i said. very confident.

when he first got with his girlfriend, i noticed some change in him, and he wasent the same guy anymore, but i let it pass thinking it was a phase, and it was.

so as i started speaking to him like my best friend again, we became really close, and the past few days, have been some what confusing. as i said, he hugs all his friends alot, but lately when he has hugged me, we would have gone on a walk (like per usual) and stopped to hug, he would hug me from behind, and it just made me feel so safe and secure, in my opinion it felt like so much more than what he had given me before.

and we always sit round the corner from his house, which is pretty private, and were so close to kissing its unbelievable, but i stop myself, and i really hate myself for doing so, but he has a girlfriend, and he is not one to cheat, and im not one to allow him to cheat.

im just so confused, hes always been a best friend of mine, and even if we did date if he broke up with his girlfriend, there would ALWAYS be friendship after it, that's how strong we are.

also he did say to me once, (everyone such as his family etc... always say to him "oh have you rang the wife" to him meaning him and his girlfriend) and i said to him, aww your wifee...and he was like, id never get married to her, we have been going out over a year, and she is my first girlfriend so i wont be with her forever.

which made me think even more

im not blinded by him

cos to most of you reading this, it may seem like he is a player, but he truly does love her

but i seriously don't know what to do

please don't think AHH I CBA TO READ THIS, I WONT HELP HER

cos i SOOO need the help

would be much appreciated :)

xxx