If anyone could help me out I will greatly appreciate it I have a girlfriend who is my first one and its been two days so I was wondering when I should hug her kiss her and hold hands?

Answer 1

I know it's difficult, but physical intimacy shouldn't be the first thing on your mind after two days in a new relationship. Since it's already on your mind, don't obsess about it. Slow down. Take your time. Let things proceed naturally. Her readiness and willingness are what's important. One of the next times you're alone, going for a walk, at the movies, etc., reach for her hand. You will be able to tell if she responds in an encouraging fashion. After that, when you're walking her home or dropping her off, move to hug her. She will either embrace you back or recoil slightly. When you break the hug, if she's looking up at you, I think a kiss might be appropriate. If she's looking away, wait. All of this will be better when she's into it. When in doubt, ask. "I would really like to kiss you, would that be all right?" Listen to and respect the answer. Good luck.