If becoming angry when falsely accused is considered normal and you reply in an angry Voice when Accused Why should such a response be considered Abuse by someone?

Answer 1

It sounds like your emotions are taking priority, instead of rationality. Try to look at this from the perspective of somebody else. You make an accusation, and they become enraged. If you have already decided that they are guilty of the crime that you accused, then are likely to be further convinced when they reply with rage. There really is no correct reaction. If you made no reaction, they could have easily accused you of having no conscience. The way that you reacted is not necessarily wrong, and I am of the firm belief that most people would react in this way to a false accusation.

Try to cool off, and look at it from their angle. Then think about what you are going to do about this situation. Violence is not the answer here. Think rationally, and consider the consequences of your actions.