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  • You broke the golden rule of cheating and it's cheap and dishonest. If you didn't love your husband for reasons of your own or you simply fell out of love then you haven't communicated with your husband and tried harder to make the marriage work even if it meant marriage counseling. You took the easy way out and now find yourself in love with someone else. You have to decide if you are in love with love (missing the warmth and love you may find from this lover) and stop the affair or, make a decision; send your children to their grandparents; friends and sit down with your husband and be honest and file for divorce to be with your lover. Sooner or later your husband will find out about the affair and it will cause a nasty scene in the end which will be devastating to the children. Honesty is the best policy and staying in a loveless marriage is not good for children. Children are bright and can pick up on emotions between their parents very easily. You have to make the choice! The grass on the other side of the fence is not always greener! This means you could lose a lot if your lover just enjoys the idea of sneaking around, but is not into commitment. There is generally no going back to your husband once you have left because you will have hurt him deeply and you broke the bond of trust between the two of you. You could well be left without nothing. It is hard to retain a loving relationship in a marriage and it appears easier to cheat, but the truth of the matter is that working on resolving your differences with your partner in marriage is far easier than cheating and possibly being found out.
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