Don't be bitter about the breakup, but do not put your life on hold in hopes that your ex will want to be in a relationship with you again. If your ex truly loved you and wanted to be with you, she would do so in the here and now (assuming she initiated the breakup). What were the issues that caused you to break up? If you both couldn't resolve the problems, where would a future relationship with her be any different?
See this as a final breakup--not "taking a break", not a time period for either of you to "have space". Don't offer or accede to being friends; you can't be only 'friends' with someone you still have feelings for, as it will only cause hurt or resentment when your ex becomes interested in and starts dating other people. You needn't be rude or cruel; simply say it's best for both of you to have not contact with each other at this time. Then stick to it--don't contact her and don't return any of her contacts to you.
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You don't, but if she is then that is her problem. It is your ex-girlfriend, you should have moved on.
A man should get a new girlfriend unless he loves a life of drama.
No. However, if they are both girls, then you should.
It means you have overstepped your bounds. He feels that you do not trust him and that he doesn't have to answer that question. He married you, not the ex girlfriend. He may always have some feelings about her, but it doesn't mean he loves her or doesn't love you. What is in the past should stay there. Focus on your future together. If you are having problems, seek therapy for yourself and both of you together.
if he loves her he would not care.
Everybody loves me.
You try to work it out by staying together. If it doesn't work, just accept it.
it means ... SHE LOVES YOU! and maybe you should buy her a ring
Just wait and see what happens.
I think it means this boy loves you more as a friend or he wants you instead of his current girlfriend. It either means that he loves you but not enough to end it with his girlfriend or that he loves you but he doesn't want to hurt her.