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One of you should start talking so it looks like it's up to you. Just smile, be nice and talk about your favorite bands, etc. Ease into the relationship. A lot of guys put on a big front, but most are very shy and insecure as are most of the girls. It's a wonder any of us get together.

Next time you see him walk over, smile and just start chatting about whatever comes to your mind. Good groups of singers are great to talk about, etc.

Good luck Marcy

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If your interested in a boy..TALK TO HIM! Dont have any doubts about wanting to be with him or just talk to him..&& its ok to like some one else while you like him

AnswerOkay, you need to talk to him first...you can't be afraid to. If you talk to him and he doesn't seem to be all that interested in the conversation then maybe he isn't interested in you, but there is a difference between un-interested and shy, watch him and if he seems to be looking at your face a lot then looking away he might just be shy or nervous about talking to you. Either way just go for it!! AnswerGuys for some odd reason or another have a hard time approaching a girl just because they are worried about getting "turned down." Their feelings may get a little rattled since he made that first step and thought you were going to follow his dancing feet, but instead you had your own routine and didn't want anything to do with his wack ass dance. His pride is scuffled by her action and now walks away with a hint of disappointment at his side. Guys don't want to feel like that so even if he see's the most beautiful girl and knew he was going to marry her in that instant moment, he still wouldn't go up to her and say hello or start up a conversation. He probably would be either too nervous, think that he isn't good-lookin enough to pick her up, or just he doesn't have the balls or talent to waltz up and captivate her attention while sparking up all five senses. Ladies who read this, I know it's traditional for the guy to walk up to you, but the rules have been changed and the roles switched. Plus guys like the idea of the woman coming to them. It gives the guys that confident,manhooded boost from thinkin that, "Oh yea! She came up to me and all my guy friends witnessed it. I'm the hot one because she walked up and started talking to _ME_ first. Who's da man?!? I AM THE MAN!" I'm tellin you that's probably what's going on in their heads! Both of them!! LoL;) Yea, and just talk about anything. I unfortunately had a BAAAD experience with the topic of music. Didn't really know the artists he was talking about, but pets were a good topic. If your at the guy's house or he is a friend but maybe you want to get to that stage of "potential relationship getting started," look around his place. See what he's interested in and start asking questions or bring up stories. That always helped with me. Hope my answer helps! TTFN

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